I told my coworker that I have feelings for her. I’m married. My coworker is completely creeped out by me now. She told another coworker, who gave me The Talk about sexual harassment. My job is safe for now, I hope. The only thing I can do is give her space and leave her alone. I thought I was doing OK, but I guess I need to work harder. My wife doesn’t know. Hopefully she never will.