why need to ask someone to rape you??? most women are traumatized after the scene! i think it’s not really RAPE you are after… but an intense sex to another person.
What it appears you are expressing is sometimes referred to as a “rape fantasy” desire.
I understand many people have such fantasies, which are really not the same thing as rape, but probably a manifestation of a desire for submissive sex. This does not make you weird at all. It takes guts to admit your fantasies to other people. Perhaps you could do some research and exploring on the subject, to help you find a safe outlet for your desires, before you risk placing yourself in a potentially dangerous situation with a stranger? Talking to someone responsible you trust is always advisable too.
:)
If you WANT it, it’s not RAPE. Rape is an act of violence. I agree with thahammer.
scatterbrain. said on 31 Mar 2008 at 5:38 pm #Quote
trust me, you do not want to be raped, it is not fun, nor is it pleasurable. It is humiliating, disgusting, and extremely scary. i agree with other responses, and think maybe you are confusing your “urges” with wanting to be more submissive with your partner, in which case that is completely understandable, but rape is on another level, and until you experience it firsthand you can never comprehend how traumatizing it can be.
Yeah sounds like you’d like to be overpowered for some great submissive sex. My latest fantasy involves a guy who pinned me down on the bed and kissed me. He almost made me *** right then and there, if he’d have felt me up he would have. Confess your fantasies to your partner & role play at a bar & go have some wild sex in the car. Just be careful & try to make it a quickie so’s you don’t get busted by the law. Nothing like a nosy cop to spoil the fun, and jail would most definitely suck.
Mandy said on 26 Feb 2008 at 10:02 pm # Quote
why? are you crazy? you can get an STD, PREGNANT, MURDERED AFTERWARDS,you need to get help
Someone said on 27 Feb 2008 at 9:57 pm # Quote
why need to ask someone to rape you??? most women are traumatized after the scene! i think it’s not really RAPE you are after… but an intense sex to another person.
thahammer said on 28 Feb 2008 at 2:38 pm # Quote
What it appears you are expressing is sometimes referred to as a “rape fantasy” desire.
I understand many people have such fantasies, which are really not the same thing as rape, but probably a manifestation of a desire for submissive sex. This does not make you weird at all. It takes guts to admit your fantasies to other people. Perhaps you could do some research and exploring on the subject, to help you find a safe outlet for your desires, before you risk placing yourself in a potentially dangerous situation with a stranger? Talking to someone responsible you trust is always advisable too.
:)
niki said on 09 Mar 2008 at 4:21 pm # Quote
If you WANT it, it’s not RAPE. Rape is an act of violence. I agree with thahammer.
scatterbrain. said on 31 Mar 2008 at 5:38 pm # Quote
trust me, you do not want to be raped, it is not fun, nor is it pleasurable. It is humiliating, disgusting, and extremely scary. i agree with other responses, and think maybe you are confusing your “urges” with wanting to be more submissive with your partner, in which case that is completely understandable, but rape is on another level, and until you experience it firsthand you can never comprehend how traumatizing it can be.
psychobytch said on 03 Oct 2008 at 8:37 pm # Quote
Yeah sounds like you’d like to be overpowered for some great submissive sex. My latest fantasy involves a guy who pinned me down on the bed and kissed me. He almost made me *** right then and there, if he’d have felt me up he would have. Confess your fantasies to your partner & role play at a bar & go have some wild sex in the car. Just be careful & try to make it a quickie so’s you don’t get busted by the law. Nothing like a nosy cop to spoil the fun, and jail would most definitely suck.