Hair

I have a disease, which causes excess hair growth. Throughout the past couple years, I’ve been noticing more hair on my body. Because of this, I’ve shied away from many things including men.
Right now, I found out that someone really likes me and I like him too. But I’m afraid he’ll notice my flaws. As time passes, I’m slowly taking care of this problem with treatments. But I think I should tell him ahead of time instead of him finding out randomly some time down the road. I don’t know what to do or say..

10 Responses to “ “Hair”

  1. Anonymous says:

    There are a lot of women that are hairy and have excess hair growth its called hirsutism. If you are getting treated for hair removal then don’t worry about it. If and when this guy falls in love with you…he will not even care about it..he’ll see it for what it is..just hair.

    • Florida Gator Man says:

      My God, woman! I know that more than 100 million guys LOVE hair on a woman! (that is the
      subscription info for websites of women who have hirsuteness!

      That little mustache on my woman is very sexy!
      What we think is WEIRD is that any woman would
      want to remove any hair! Hair is a natural protector, part of a great cooling system, warning system, and sure excites!

      Women with hair have a higher libido, make better mothers, and are the very best lovers!

      Most real men want a true love, and care little that there are imperfections, or, extra
      elegances with the package! We simply want to
      love, and be loved, and see you only as the perfection of creation we would love to adore!

      Wherever you are getting that attitude that you are NOT the perfect being, you need to drop it!

      Real, true love never criticizes, but, instead, evokes an attitude of gratitude, joy, and adoration for this other person who is the
      physical proof of an intelligent creation!

  2. Amy says:

    *hugs*

    tell him. this confession does not deserve to be in the “weird” category if you ask me! While assuming nothing about your particular condition, plenty of women have excess hair growth due to hormones, nationality or genetics. whatever your disease is, you are a normal and beautiful person.

  3. Michelle says:

    Is It Polycystic ovarian syndrom?

  4. Carly says:

    yes, it is PCOS.

    and thank you guys, you’re so nice :)

  5. Jamileya says:

    -.In my opinion I feel that if he really likes you he wont care about it. You are right about telling him befor hand but its not something that you can rehurse. When you do decide to tell him just be natural with it and just let every thing flow. If he really likes you it wont bother him. xoxo Good luck sweetie <3

  6. Lou Lou says:

    I have PCOS and I’m currently getting laser. Best thing I ever did for my self esteem. And if he is worth it he will understand what you are going through.

  7. Anon says:

    i don’t think confessing your flaws is a great way to start a relationship. Don’t lie but try starting out with a casual relationship to get to know eachother, and if things develop into something more serious, then it’s time to let him know.

  8. Laura says:

    I’m sure if he trully loves you, he won’t care about what you look like. I’m sure your a beautiful person inside and out. Everybody has little flaws here and their, but thats not important. He loves you for you. :)

  9. another response says:

    It is not a flaw. It’s just something you are experiencing. If it bothers him, he’s too materialistic.

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