Embarrassed
Posted by Anonymous in Weird on Aug 1st, 2010 | 21 commentsI wish i was just like any girl, i’m 17 and i have enough self esteem issues to deal with. I do not think i am ugly and i’m lucky to be tall and slender, but i hate what i look like down there. I just spent the last hour looking up labiaplasty, i am so embarrassed by this and it has impacted so much on how i feel about myself. I know i can’t even begin to relate to so many confessions on here but this is mine, and it is disgusting.
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Truth: Most guys love big beef curtains, HONEST. However, it’s not important what anyone thinks other than you. If you don’t like them get them fixed its a simple in and out surgery. IMHO if your worried what someone you are about to have a sexual encounter with will think or that they might reject you, your not ready to be with THAT person.
I agree with Truth Hurts, I doubt very much that you look bad like you think you do… Some girls get fixated on their weight or their nose, hair.. etc.. Whatever it it, they blow it out of proportion.. Try not to worry so much. Try to find something to do that makes you feel better about yourself and your body.. I recommend working out, that may take care of how you’re feeling
I’ve slept with women from 17 to 44, and all vaginas are different. Some have larger labia, some smaller. It’s the differences which make us unique! The differences make us human and interesting.
I’ve seen vaginas which are beautiful, and some which aren’t, but all that ever mattered to me was the owner. As long as she was comfortable in her own skin, and had a good time, how her vagina looked was really kind of irrelevant.
It’s pretty unlikely that at 17 your vagina looks like a 40-year old’s. As we age, skin loosens up some. As long as your vagina works the way it’s supposed to, who cares?
I think we see so much airbrushed pornography on the net that women start to get this idea that all vaginas should look like that, and they DON’T!
You know how many times I’ve worried about whether or not a woman thought my penis was good looking? Maybe twice.
Start looking around the net. You’ll find articles describing a wide variance in normal labia length and size.
This poster is exactly correct. I have been with 20+ women. Labia, clorises, and hoods all vary considerably, both in form and sensitivity. These differences are a huge part of how your sexuality is different from others’.
In my early years, I didn’t know the difference, but have come to strongly prefer full, soft, sensitive labia. They make for such fun!
I have also learned that almost no women truly like their bodies. All of them, no matter their beauty, have something that makes them deeply unhappy about their shape or appearance. However, many women still enjoy their bodies, even if they don’t like the looks. Don’t feel unusual just because there is some feature you don’t like. Oddly, that is 100% normal. But you can definitely enjoy your body and your sexuality anyway.
Good luck with whatever your path, but know that experienced lovers will enjoy your body and your sexuality if you can as well.
Sincerely,
Voice of Experience
I know how you must be feeling. I just wish that surgery were an option for me.
Nevertheless, in your case, if the operation is safe and if it will make you feel better about yourself than you should definitely go for it.
am no medic
but biology tells me that place is full of blood vessels and no fat/cartridges
look very dangerous operation
what evrthe case i think she need to just accept herself.
Wanna know a secret?
95% of men probably won’t give a damn if you’re giving them sex. The other 5% are douchebags and should be thrown in a hole to die.
I’ve seen plenty of “airbrushed pornography” on the net, and I don’t care to tell one from another. I mean, for ***** sake, they’re vaginas. Who cares?
My thoughts exactly. :)
“The other 5% are douchebags and should be thrown in a hole to die.” Lol. :)
agreed
i dont think any man cares the size.
i mean honestly.
http://www.facebook.com/video/.....0618347958
Check out this website:
http://www.sexylabia.com/table_of_contents.htm
You should definitely avoid surgery. You need to grow up. Learn more about womens bodies. There are many variations in physiognomy. Surgery can leave you unable to enjoy sex and compromised for childbirth.
your [future] husband [the only one you should be thinking about having sex with] won’t care what it looks like he will love all of you
Hi there, I have quite long ‘lips’ shall we say and I used to kind of worry about it until now. I’m 30 years of age and have realised that I could never have the surgery as having these long lips make me way more hornier, my boyfriend absolutely loves them and bites them and sucks them and goes crazy for them. He says I’m the horniest girl he has ever met multiplied by 10,000, what if you choose to cut them and you lose some sensations that otherwise would give you pleasure. Once you are confident in yourself. Another guy I was with told me that he cums just thinking about going down on me. Remember it might be better to be different then like everyone else.
It never looks like it does in the magazines!I remember looking at a magazine or poster or something and there was a naked woman and her vag was showing, I couldn’t help but laugh at how cropped and unreal this thing was!! haha, it’s still silly! As you grow older so does every part of your body, so I think it’s totally normal at 17 to wonder if you vagina is “normal,” I felt the same way when I was your age. Embrace the body you were given!
Gosh! To be honest i’v never got a mirror and studied it! Never had the urge!! Sounds to me like a few of u should get ur face out ur fannies and do sumut useful! I think all fannies are well ugly! Thats why we ware pants! Keep ur knickers on and don’t look at it!
I didn’t read any other comments. But don’t feel bad you aren’t alone. I felt like that for basically my whole teens. It bothered me a lot and I wish someone would have told me it was normal. Guys don’t care and most like it bigger. I know it sucks when you worry about people noticing in clothes and stuff. But I wish I hadn’t worried about it so much. I don’t even think about it anymore (I’m 28)
it dont matter.
jeez. women beat themselves up for nothing.
I’m pretty sure it’s fine. But you didn’t really explain what it is that troubles you about it. you got dog ears going on? if that’s all, then don’t worry. That type of shit is hot. I can’t, for the life of me, think of anything that would ever-ever-ever make me disgusted with a vagina. (aside from mutilation and STD’s of course)
Take it from a red-blooded male, that’s the only part where the uglier the better.
LMGDFAO It is so sad that this is so true.
i have the same problem i dont like the way i look down there :( oh well i dont care after reading these comments hope you dont eather :].