i married him against my father’s advise. he was right. i have children. i wish he were not their father. i am stuck in a marriage with a guy who is unable to grow up, who can’t support himself much less his family. i make excuses for him, and for myself for being with him. i need help to get away. i can’t afford to leave and i can’t afford to stay. i’m trapped. my dad was right. he’s a looser.
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you are like my mother.
Her first marriage sucked.my dad was a playboy and he was not good in his career.
then my mother got married again.This man is 16 years older than her,whom is my step father now.initially she found him reliable,mature in emotion.But ten years getting along,it turned out that he is such a bad person,he doesnt work,and use my mum’s money and take no responsibility.Now he has got cancer and for a long time they have no sex life.My mum now knows he is a selfish guy but she just cant git rid of this marriage.she is just not brave enough. she is afraid of facing any change.
I hope you to be brave to make the decision.:)
wish your life wonderful
GOOD LUCK
Do you get your attempt really hard?
maybe he wants something that you have it, but you don’t know. I mean do your best, think to your children. whould you want to have risk of seperation and even divorse for what? maybe this is better you and your husband get some advise from a counselor.
God help you and beleive it
p.s; if my writting is bad, forgive me. beacue my native language isn’t english
best regards