Comments on: Violent http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent Confess your deepest, darkest secret Fri, 21 Nov 2008 05:42:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: Anon http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-2210 Anon Wed, 03 Sep 2008 13:04:44 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-2210 Two words : FAMILY ADVOCACY Go there. They will keep him away from you, and send you back home to wherever home is for free, along with all of your things, for free, okay? Get out before it gets worse. Because it will only get worse. Two words :

FAMILY

ADVOCACY

Go there. They will keep him away from you, and send you back home to wherever home is for free, along with all of your things, for free, okay? Get out before it gets worse.

Because it will only get worse.

]]> By: take charge http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-760 take charge Sun, 24 Feb 2008 17:15:51 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-760 listen i dont know you but NO WOMEN should take crap from any man NONE if you cant take plan a day or something pack whatever you need and JUST LEAVE you need to keep taking and taking you should FIGHT BACK for yourself at least before god forbids he ends up killing you or putting you in intensive care THINK ABOUT THAT BEFORE THINKING ABOUT HIM cause what hes doing to you isnt LOVE dont mistake to think thats what it is ITS NOT if he did love you hed know how better to to treat you GET OUT GET HELP! listen i dont know you but NO WOMEN should take crap from any man NONE if you cant take plan a day or something pack whatever you need and JUST LEAVE you need to keep taking and taking you should FIGHT BACK for yourself at least before god forbids he ends up killing you or putting you in intensive care THINK ABOUT THAT BEFORE THINKING ABOUT HIM cause what hes doing to you isnt LOVE dont mistake to think thats what it is ITS NOT if he did love you hed know how better to to treat you GET OUT GET HELP!

]]> By: angel http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-524 angel Wed, 05 Dec 2007 03:55:38 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-524 Please seek help with a superiour to him. You can escape this cycle.You are not alone. This should not be the end.But the beinging. have faith and contact a local 1800 domestic abuse agency they provide shelter for abuse women. peace Please seek help with a superiour to him.
You can escape this cycle.You are not alone.
This should not be the end.But the beinging.

have faith and contact a local 1800 domestic abuse agency they provide shelter for abuse women.

peace

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-391 Anonymous Sun, 04 Nov 2007 18:20:16 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-391 Try to gather some evidence. Take pictures of your bruises if you have any. Take pictures of holes he put in the wall. If he ever injured you and you saw a doctor for it, get a copy of the medical record. These things will be helpful to you when you talk to his superiors. Please get help before you wind up pregnant and in an even more vulnerable position. Try to gather some evidence. Take pictures of your bruises if you have any. Take pictures of holes he put in the wall. If he ever injured you and you saw a doctor for it, get a copy of the medical record. These things will be helpful to you when you talk to his superiors. Please get help before you wind up pregnant and in an even more vulnerable position.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-390 Anonymous Sun, 04 Nov 2007 03:24:40 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-390 i agree. go to his superior. go to get help. go now before you end up in a body bag, either physical or mental i agree. go to his superior. go to get help. go now before you end up in a body bag, either physical or mental

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-389 Anonymous Sat, 03 Nov 2007 21:00:00 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-389 ASK for help and the System is open for you even if you are ilegally in the country !! Come on. Take the courage yourself and U won´t regret !! ASK for help and the System is open for you even if you are ilegally in the country !! Come on. Take the courage yourself and U won´t regret !!

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-388 Anonymous Sat, 03 Nov 2007 03:11:38 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-388 you need to go and talk to his ist sergent they will provide help and he not know about it you need to go and talk to his ist sergent they will provide help and he not know about it

]]> By: Anon http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-387 Anon Fri, 02 Nov 2007 22:31:22 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-387 You are a military spouse in a foreign country, but you have access to "the system". His chain of command, the family service center and the relief society (for the flavor of his service) where they could provide you some escape funds. You are a military spouse in a foreign country, but you have access to "the system". His chain of command, the family service center and the relief society (for the flavor of his service) where they could provide you some escape funds.

]]> By: sipedon http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-392 sipedon Fri, 02 Nov 2007 14:35:20 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-392 Contact your military ombudsman, she will help you. You can also go through your detachment family services office. They will protect your privacy and help you cope and maybe advise through the command that he needs counselling. You are not the only one this happens to. Pushing and throwing things may just be the beginning. If you don't know how to find your ombudsman, then ask another military wife.... Help is there, that is if you seriously want it... Contact your military ombudsman, she will help you. You can also go through your detachment family services office. They will protect your privacy and help you cope and maybe advise through the command that he needs counselling.

You are not the only one this happens to. Pushing and throwing things may just be the beginning. If you don’t know how to find your ombudsman, then ask another military wife….

Help is there, that is if you seriously want it…

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-386 Anonymous Fri, 02 Nov 2007 10:49:03 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/violent#comment-386 In abusive situations where you feel trapped these are common feelings. There are always many options not just the one or two that you see in front of you. Does he know you are scared- that you don't feel safe or happy with him? In abusive situations where you feel trapped these are common feelings. There are always many options not just the one or two that you see in front of you. Does he know you are scared- that you don’t feel safe or happy with him?

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