THE WAY IT IS
Posted by d***e in Spouse on Mar 18th, 2011 | 8 commentsbesides the cheating and secrecy- my husband would be the perfect man. hes a patholigical liar and he sucks at it- everytime he lies i feel like hes calling me an idiot to my face.
other than those things- hes romantic, a good provider, the best lover ive everrrrr had, the best daddy for my kids i could ask for, he tells me im pretty every day even though im sure thats another lie.
thats the thing with the cheating/secrecy/lies- its killed my self image. my motivation to do me. i feel insulted directly. every girl its happened with, in my mind i logically know is uglier or fatter and a hell of alot more boring and probably couldnt be half the wife and mom i am- but the actions he takes leave me feeling the worst kind of opposite of the truth.
but again- besides all of this- PERFECT. all the people who we hang out with say they wish they had love like ours, that were sickeningly sweet, that were made for eachother. then he does this- and while im not shocked- everyone else is- some ppl even blame me when it happens.
so ive ended on the conclusion that all men are born cheaters- cuz how could someone i love so much, thats so perfect in every other aspect- do what he does?
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So what, if anything, are you going to do about it?
Men are not suppose to cheat on you and
you deserve better than to be cheated on.
It’s one thing if it happens once. If it happens again it will continue no matter what. If a man loves you he wont cheat.
A bit of a leap to say that all men are cheaters based on your experience with one man. Only one way to find out, really: collect more evidence by getting involved with more men!
Thanks but its been EVERY MAN … Hes number 7
given a chance all men will cheat, and those who say will not cheat may be having some testorone issues.
I disagree. My fiance was once offered to be part of a three-some a while back and he refused knowing that he wouldnt get caught. He even told me he wanted to do it but refused out of love and respect for me. Any real man who truly loves his girl will not cheat. Ive met plenty of men who cheat all the time and some who refuse to. It all really depends on the man. To say every man will cheat if given the chance or that all men are born cheater means that you have yet to meet a decent man.
LOL. I BELIEVE ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT, YET ALL THE SAME. KNOWING THAT! YOU JUST HAVE TO TAKE IT ALL IN AND THEN LET IT ALL GO. IF YOU LOVE HIM AND HE LOVES YOU WHATS THE PROBLEM? LEARN TO LET IT GO BECAUSE WE ARE ONLY HUMAN, NOT ONE HUMAN ON EARTH IS PERFECT NOT ONE..YOU LOVE A HUMAN FOR WHO THEY ARE NOT FOR WHAT YOU WANT OR EXPECT THEM TO BE I SAY THIS OUT OF EXPERIENCE AND FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART TRUST ME I WENT THRU THE PAIN AND ALL THAT COMES WITH IT. AND IVE LEARNED ALL WHAT I HAVE SAID TO YOU,IM ONLY 26 AND IVE LEARNED..YOU FOCUS ON YOUR SELF TO BETTER YOUR SELF AS A WHOLE PERSON AND HE WILL NOTICE. LIFE IS TO SHORT TO NOT LIVE,LAUGH,LOVE AND FORGIVE…