Swinger

How do I tell my husband I would like to venture out in to the swinger lifestyle. We need to revive our sex life cause it has died. Mostly because he refuses to acknowledge the fact he can’t last longer than 2 minutes unless he has been drinking. His ego won’t allow him to go see a doctor and get the little blue pill for my sake. I have tried various things to spice things up, watching porn, dressing up role playing, and various other porn star acts. He gets his but I am left disappointed.



11 Responses to “ “Swinger”

  1. Bubear50 says:

    Be careful what you wish for!! What makes you think things will get better? You will only hasten your divorce AND you will still “not” get yours. If you want to pursue this bahavior go see a psychologist!

  2. Non Believer. says:

    Bubear90… you are a raging bitch. Who are you to decide what is the right thing to do in someone ELSE’S marriage? Shutup already. You always have negative things to say.

  3. Anonymous says:

    maybe you should stand on a street corner you whore. at least that way you would make some money while doing what you love the most. Can’t beleive that you love sex more than your husband. There are more REAL IMPORTANT issues in the world than to worry about having sex!

    • anonymous says:

      Yet you seem to feel this is important enough to respond too. That is one hour of your life you will never get back. Maybe you should take your own advise and focus on the important issues in the world instead of someone elses sex life. We now know you are not getting any either.

  4. rawrrrrrrrr says:

    You should love your husband no matter what. You should care about getting please with/by sex :)

  5. Buchi Cunucu says:

    Buy a huge ***** or big cucumber, it helps, have him watch you use it, he’ll love it and it would spice up your sex life.

  6. RonnieDaCentaur says:

    I have met many unhappy women. You are similar. Look at yourself naked. If fat and/or out of shape: go to work-out. Walk and exercise. Next make him take you out for what you did when dating: Dance, club night, movies just have fun!!
    Give him sexy notes and phone calls at inopportune times.
    Make out with him when he gets home, wear lingerie or topless. Show off for him in public when someone may see.
    GET HIM INTERESTED then he will last longer and want you again. Also, shave your bikini-area bald. He will like to lick you. Teach him what you want. Be a sex kitten.
    If all fails, get a non-possessive secret lover during the day

  7. keith says:

    i can’t beleive someone would suggest it will never get better, and that you should settle for how it is, screw that, ‘ronnie’s comment is the smartest on here, you have a right to be happy and to a good sex life…….as for swinging, there are not a lot of guys who would respond to that well i don’t think, I suggested the same to my wife and she’s concerned about disease so she won’t but we found other ways, you have to be accepting if the person is not agreeable to something, if you want to stay in a relationship………. n don’t want to make you choke but give some serious thought to a threesome with another non-relationship threatening woman, or since he doesn’t last very long just play around with her in front of him, that’d be your ‘in’ to that kind of thing for any guy………best of luck to you….

  8. M says:

    swinging is not for u,if ur only reason 2 do it is 2 repair ur sex life, u both have 2 want it otherwise it could be the end of ur relationship…
    Visit a adult store & get some sexy outfits & toys & encourage ur husband, make him feel special, u will b surprised how much this can help ur sex life…

  9. jimmy says:

    get a hold of a copy of My Story confessions of a swinger by Nicci Greene if that doesnt make you swing nothing will