I only stay with my girlfriend out of pity. I want to leave her but after all we’ve been through I still care and I don’t want to put her through the heartbreak and loss in this difficult time in her life. The relationship would be tolerable if we didn’t argue all the time over trivial little things. It makes me feel horrible about myself but I know as soon as someone better and more attractive comes along I’d cheat on her just so she would break up with me instead of me having to. She brings out the best and worst in me. I think I’d be happier alone.
if her situation is that bad, she might not be able to leave you no matter what the circumstance. are you living together?
You think breaking up with her would mess her up? Try cheating on her before you do it. That will destroy her.
Have some integrity.
uuuuuhhhh you obviously dont deserve her and arent ready for a relationship! grrrr these things require WORK
Please stop wasting her time. Leave her with integrity, as mentioned by another user, and she will find someone who will be with her because he cares for her and wants the best for her.
You are also wasting your time by being with some that you don`t want.
Separation would be a win-win situation!
“I still care and I don’t want to put her through the heartbreak and loss in this difficult time in her life. ”
How lame and pathetic does that sound…if breaking up will ruin her..what the hell Cheating will do…Have some integrity….I am sure she is also sick of all the fights …she better remember you as a decent human being and a friend than hate you for being a Cheater