Obsessed my husband will leave me
Posted by Astral in Spouse on Nov 22nd, 2010 | 7 commentsFor a while now I am obsessed that my husband will leave me. The thing is, he has never given me a reason to think that, on the contrary, he loves me deeply and is caring, respectful, and all around a good man.
So I have no idea where my obsession comes from, other than the fact that he’s TOTALLY GORGEOUS, with model looks, and women flirt with him all the time. I’m a plain Jane. So I think that one day he’ll wake up and get tired of me and get “better”. Problem is, I don’t know how to get rid of this obsession. I’m afraid he might end up noticing.
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You need more self confidence. Maybe he likes plain janes. If you spend too much tome worrying that he’ll leave you you’re missing out on what you have and if he does notice, it’ll likey be a turn off.
You should tell him that. Keeping it a secret diconnects you from him and he’ll feel it. The more disconnected he feels, the more susceptible he is to finding a connection with someone else.
Talk to him… Or else.
Would you still love him if he wasn’t so good looking? Of course you would! Why should he be any different?
You’re not a guy. You don’t get it.
If he’s the type of guy who can *see* you, really *see* you with all your external plainness, and love you anyway, you have him. Thoroughly. Utterly. Completely.
When he looks at you, he doesn’t see you with his eyes, but with his heart. He will *never* leave you.
Awww! Thank you “I”….so sweet of you to describe it that way.
I will keep that in mind when doubting his love for me.
Said it perfectly! I’m a plain jane myself and my husband constantly gets hit on. I told him that I fear that someone hotter is gonna come his way and steal him from me. His answer: “No, that won’t ever happen. Why? ‘Cos there’s always been something about you…a ‘glow’. I can’t explain it but…you just have this glow about you.”
Takes my breath away. :) Don’t worry, sweetie. I’m not. Anymore. ;)
If you continue on this line of thought, he WILL sense it and will eventually get tired of IT, not you, and may wind up moving on. Have a little trust in his love and what is meant to happen, will happen. Confidence is very attractive. Obviously there are things about you that turn him on. Trust in that and live your lives. You should speak with a therapist too.