My Cheating Husband

Posted by in Spouse on Feb 24th, 2011 | 3 comments

I know people are tired of reading about men and their infidelities but I am here to proclaim that I’m a good women. I helped build this man from a high school drop out to a GED student currently serving in the United States Army. I know that this sounds strange;a career oriented women with goals of her own, not to mention that I’m a junior in college. But I’m 26 married with no children and I feel lonely. I sometimes find myself wondering should I leave him or not. He claims that he has not done anything with a female but that doesn’t seem to bother me, what bothers me is why drag me all the way from NY to live NC and treat me this way. I fought him yes and yelled but that doesn’t solve anything. I feel terrible to lead him on but after what he did I totally lost respect for him. I could honestly say that I don’t think I love him anymore nor in love with him. He’s actually getting ready to leave to Kuwait and I am going to leave him while he’s gone. I have to for the betterment of me. I know that he loves me but I found out that he’s been denying me while in training, one women said that she didn’t even know he had a wife. I could honestly say that after what I herd I didn’t cry I was actually relieved, I now understand what to look next in a man

3 Responses to “ “My Cheating Husband”

  1. Vignesh says:
    February 24, 2011 at 7:32 pm

    Its a sick feeling.. I know that feeling.. I am not married and from India.. But i have felt that with my frnds.. Want a frnd u always have me

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  2. A Mom says:
    February 27, 2011 at 1:14 am

    If you are going to leave him, be honest with him and with yourself. Do not do it while he is overseas and away. Do it before, do it after, whatever. But be brave, and be honest. That way, no matter what happens, you will have no regrets.

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  3. lex says:
    March 28, 2011 at 11:05 am

    i feel so bad for you i know exactly what your feeling and its very hard and very devastating. you should definetly leave him you castick to your guns for your sake. you dont want it to happen again .again and 9 times out of 10 men dont change there ways. i do agree with the above commenter though, you should do it face to face not while he’s over seas let him see how much he hurt you he will regret what he’s done and try to apologize but be strong and stick your guns cuz you dont want to go through it again.

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