Marriage
Posted by Anonymous in Spouse on Feb 28th, 2008 | 6 commentsI have a child by him, I married him, I love him….or at least I thought I did.
I have been with him for 4 years and have a 2 year old child with him. I now have no want or need for him. I feel his ex wife means more to him than I do. I have very little love for him and no longer want to be with him. I just don’t know what to do put keep up the front since everyone says “you are jest having a hard time; it’ll get better”. But deep down, I know it won’t get better only worse, but I will stay for a while at least
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Think of a day that he’s badly sick to death. A disaster. Is he still there for u ?
If someone just breaks into ur house and.. What is he going to do?
“We tend to forget that happiness doesn’t come as a result of getting something we don’t have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.”
Frederick Keonig
hi i dont know you but why would you keep living a life thats obviously killing you im thinking everyone in life wants happiness dont you want yours if it isnt going anywhere or getting better like so said why stay do you know how many single parents the world has if ur working youll survive and be happy TRUST ME ITS BETTER TO BE ALONE AND HAPPY THAN TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND UNHAPPY think abt ur child happiness as well hey think like i think just like how them men like to say it got plenty fish in the sea you should think the same.
try this: do some of the things you all use to do together early in the relationship, the late night drives, dinners, whatever was ur thing. try doung alot of those things for one month and dont stop. if after that you still feel as you do today then leave. sometimes the interest dident go anywhere but it faded as you two are both busy i assume. try it
Please dont stay with him because you guys have a child together, that only leads for a very bad example of what a marrage is like for a child. Plus since your child is young it wont be as emotionally stressfull
Go with your heart. You both deserve to be happy and if he knew that you didn’t love him or was in love with him, it would only be fair that you let him know that. He doesn’t deserve to be used and played as a fool nor does your child deserve to live in a house of lies and despair.
I know where your coming form. My wife and I have been together for the same amount of time. But have no kids together. I feel like I got married for the convience of being married and looking like a stable man. I felt like it was the right thing to do. I think I was wrong. Im not sure how long I can keep being unhappy. The sex isnt there and the conection and lust is long gone.