I’m leaving you one day
Posted by Anonymous in Spouse on Mar 24th, 2011 | 6 commentsWhen the time is right, I am leaving. I am in love with another man. This man you know but don’t know. He is in love with me and makes me feel like nothing else matters to him but me and his kids! When you thought him and I were over- we were still loving each other and never stopped.
I am sorry this is happening but him and I can’t help what we feel for each other. I love you but I am IN LOVE with someone else!
xoxo
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It appears that your man hurt you and that it was not resolved.
If this is the case, and without knowing any other details, I humbly suggest discussing with him and consider working it out before throwing away your relationship.
i am actually in the same situation – and it is not easy. i am also in love with another man. he makes my smile bigger than i ever thought possible. he also had a daughter and i have no kids – but his willingness, compassion and understandability is something that i have never had in my life. when my guy thought that we were over we too also never stopped loving each other….seemed like it got stronger than ever. i am also sorry cause i didnt mean for it to happen – but it did. i love him but am in love with someone else. i think that you should wait till the time is right and leave. that is what i plan to do too. we have tried to work out our issues but there are 11 years worth of more bad memories for me than good.
Both of you are wasting the lives of your husbands. Every year that goes by, that you both risk the health of your husband (herpes anyone? Side of syphilis?), he gets older. He has less opportunities to find a woman who will give him true companionship. His retirement money piles up (which you will happily steal half of), his plans for your future together solidifies in vain, he tries harder to make you happy because he knows something isn’t right. The longer you wait, the worse it will be for him – his whole life, or decades of it, wasted, with a trashy whore who dared to say “I DO” when she didn’t.
How much longer are you two going to do that to him?
Here’s to wishing you both the justice you deserve.
First off, I don’t see any mention of husbands above…so maybe you ought to read the confessions a little better instead of assuming. Secondly, if these 2 aren’t happy, there is no reason for them to stay. Life is way too short to go through it unhappy. Thirdly, its obvious that their guys have either treated them badly, didn’t live up to promises made or in some way let the relationship die, how is that completely their fault? I think you are a bitter person who did go through everything you wrote, but without knowing the back story to these 2 women, I believe you are also very wrong for assuming that their cases are even remotely similar to yours.
I agree, I hope they both get what they deserve…which is to be happy.
how does it feel to be a executioner, counting down the days when you can tear the poor guys heart out. What’s the hold up? you waiting for the other guy to be ready?
You are immature and silly. The next man you get with will eventually disappoint you too. All relationships are TASKS. Marriage does not provide unending happiness and joy. It is not up to anyone else to make you feel a certain way or make you happy. If you are not happy, look within. Unless there is drug or alcohol abuse or violence or infidelity, you need to stay in your relationship and improve it. Especially if you have kids. GROW up.