i think i want a divorce…
Posted by Anonymous in Spouse on Jun 25th, 2010 | 11 commentswe got married in august 2009. we just had a baby boy, who is 6 weeks old. we also have a 6 year old daughter, and he has a 10 year old son from a previous relationship who lives with us. we have been on and off for 10 years… i think i finally realize that i don’t love him. he is mean. just verbally mean. he calls the kids retarded, tells them to shut their yaps, calls me a stupid bitch if we fight…he isn’t loving, concerned about any of us in the slightest. he never tells me he loves me or cares about me. he never shows me. his words are killing me inside. he smokes pot alot. i just cry for what could be, but i know it will always be this way. if i tell him he’s mean, he just calls me mean too. he can’t take responsibility for his actions. he is angry all the time. he is a big jerk. sometimes i hate him. even if he’s being nice or did something nice. i always know it’s only for the moment and then he’ll go back to being mean again. every day. every day there’s lack of compassion, understanding, loving kind tender words. he’s such a jerk!
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OH MY SISTER….. RUN.. RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN! THERE IS NOTHING WORSE THEN BEING IN A LOVELESS MARRIAGE, I WAS THERE, FOR 17 YEARS, AND IT ALMOST KILLED ME, MY EX WAS MEAN TOO, AFTER WE WERE INTIMATE HE’D SAY THINGS LIKE, “I DIDNT REALIZE THATS WHAT YOUR BODY WOULD LOOK LIKE AFTER HAVING KIDS” ORR… THE BEST ONE… I ONLY STAYED FOR THE SEX.. YA.. SO.. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE… RUN!!!! THIS GUY WILL AND HAS SUCKED THE LIFE OUT OF YOU, YOU’VE GOT TO PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN, THIS IS NOT NORMAL BEHAVIOUR AND YOUR LITTLE GIRL WILL BE DRAWN TO ‘THAT’ KIND OF MAN WHEN SHE’S OLDER.. AND YOUR SON.. WELL.. MONKEY SEE MONKEY DO!
RUN AWAY TO YOUR FREEDOM!!!!
my ex said that exact thing to me too, marie.. ouch. mine’s gone now too
mine to thank god!!!! now Im getting the sex I always deserved!!!!! LOLOL
right on, sister.. me too. i’m a lesbian now, lol
in some ways, sounds like my ex… yuck.. go to a shelter, they’ll provide for you and your kids 100% and help you get on your feet, he’ll have to pay you child support, of course.. get out, you don’t need all this stress in your life
I agree, if he’s unwilling to make things better then it can only get worse. It is a dangerous situation to be with an abusive man, even if it is just verbal, it will escalate. My sister married a man that became verbally abusive, then it escalated to physical abuse and eventually he tried to kill her. No one ever fathomed it would reach that point. Unfortunately this is way more common than we think, look up the domestic abuse/homicide stats and they are horrifying. Thankfully she found the strength to divorce him and five years later she’s with a wonderful caring man and her son now knows a good home. Get those kids out of there, marie is right, if your children grow up with a father like that they will likely gravitate to the same type of behavior so don’t think by keeping the family together you’re helping your children. If you are afraid he might try to hurt you if you leave there are safe havens all over the country to protect women and children. Stay strong and move on!
you’ve been with him all these years and didn’t see that, yeah right.
it takes awhile before we can face it, mac,, you sound like an insensitive abuser yourself.. or maybe you’re just a imbecile
r u kidding me, most of these men are nothing more then wolves in sheeps clothing, I mean, all sweet and caring and loving….. then BAM something switches, do some research you’ll see what we’re talking about… but I do agree, you must be one of “THEM”
yep, they act all mamby-pamby around everyone else becuz they’re just bullying little sissies who like to pick on girls.. they’re spoiled little b****es who are selfish, put themselves before their kids and women and will never grow up.. and frequently are drunks
I bet mac is one of those ******* husbands just like yours