I don’t deserve her.
Posted by Anon in Spouse on Aug 27th, 2009 | 11 commentsI got married at the ripe age of 21. Recently had our 4th wedding anniversary and birth of our first child. I love my wife to death, only I feel that I rushed into a permanent relationship too soon. I find myself becoming heavily attracted to women around my age and wishing that I wasn’t married so I could have a few “not so serious” relationships with some of them. (I have only had 1 other g/f before getting married. My wife is a wonderful person and we compliment each other very well, i just wish she was the last attractive female I met.
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As long as you are still alive, temptation will always be there. Fight it and don’t act upon it. Yes, the grass might look greener out there; but all that is awaiting you (i.e. if you cheat) is regret, guilt and probably your first broken marriage; which might open the flood gates for many more to come. Be faithful and go through; the rewards are tremendous :)
You are such a moron. You wonder about the sex. Heres a news flash ITS ALL THE SAME!!!!!!!!!!!! It just has different smells and sounds. Not to mention that you could get HIV or some really bad disease that could kill you or NEVER get rid of.
Be grateful that you have a really cool chick you are married to. If you want some variety buy her a wig and call her Lola
good advice, i add work at keeping your relationship fresh. do the dishes housework, include her in your fantasys try a little role playing, or exchange roles, try bondage and other methods, ask her what she likes.some trust games or other thinks, fight for your relationship or somebody will come along and give her her needs fullfilled. w.
U devlish desperate thing…I read ur shameful post in the damned local newspaper too…I dont understand why r Indians being driven out of their culture …. defective pieces really! Go enjoy ur infedility…ull pay the price one day anyway!
Ummmm…what?
Its hard to say. For me I got married at 19 a week after I met the girl because I was in the military and things were different. By 22 we filed for a divorce although we did have plenty of good times together. She remarried and I couldn’t imagine if I had stayed with her all this time. :) Choose wisely. If I were you I would make a decision between leaving her (since your feelings may only grow over time as you may already have noticed), or staying and trying to spice things up. If she truly is that special to you and you wish you had met her last, you won’t want to lose her but what a hard life ahead for you.
Good luck
I understand what you are saying. The love of my life and I had the same issue – we had only been with each other, were young, and it was long distance so we thought – well, if we both have these feelings, maybe we should get it out of our systems… 5 years later, we are not together – I think it started there. We didn’t appreciate how lucky we were, and I think we both now realize it really wasn’t worth it. I disagree that it’s all the same – in fact – sex is sooo much better when it is with someone you know well, someone you can laugh with, someone you trust, someone you LOVE. Please appreciate what you have. I don’t now how else to emphasize, it is not worth it. Those of us who are having multiple partners for fun would probably trade all that for what you have in a heartbeat.
If you want to be a little naughty – do it with your wife – role play, spice it up.
You might also try to talk to her about your feelings. She might understand how you feel.
Guess what? Once you get a baby involved in the situation you’re practically married in the first place, unless the baby dies or sumthing. So suck it up, or divorce her. Show her your true age, that you’re truly one of those rotten 21 yr old boys that go after looks and not substance. But never forget, as long as that baby lives you’ll never be away from her
leave before you cheat, if she finds out you cheated it’ll break her heart and your marriage will never be the same again, I talk from experience. It is unfair on her, she does and did not deserve you running around with skanky ho’s … DON’T DO IT … you will regret it. If you feel that strongly, talk to her rather, maybe she’ll be game for a threesome!
You are hormonal. The both of you need to drain energy. Do physical things together.
Associate with other young couples. Party up
Go dancing and more. You are too young to be like this.
Sex is good, then have public make-out sessions. Do racy things, dress her up like you want.
Open marriage, I think not. Have more and adventurous sex. Cater to your desires and then hers. Fulfill your needs together.
Sex is very much the same from woman to woman. Just make yours happy sex!!
Don’t leave her, Don’t let your selfish sex desires of other women get the best of you, Women are not just objects, you have to think past that to have a proper relationship sorry man, it’s the truth, women are not there just to fulfill your pleasures.