I cheated on my spouse

I’ve been trying to talk my SO in to swinging for several years now and my SO is very reluctant. Well, I ended up finding a very nice couple to play with and we’ve met up twice in the past month and I can’t wait to do it again. I don’t feel like I’m actually cheating because it’s just sex but technically it is. I very much enjoy my secret life I just wish my spouse would join.

5 thoughts on “I cheated on my spouse

  1. You want something your partner in a committed relationship does not, so you just go behind their back and do it and then say you’re doing nothing wrong? Boy, are you selfish, grow up. Tell your partner, move on and find someone that will share what you want. Being selfish and delusional isn’t going to do you or your partner any good short or long term.

  2. Be careful what you wish for. I talked my wife into swinging and we did it successfully for over 15 years. We took to it like ducks to water. We traveled to Europe and the Caribean with our swinging friends, We attended huge orgies all over the country in people’s homes and clubs. We had the time of out lives. We never caught so much as a cold. No disease what so ever. So what’s the problem? All of our vanilla friends disappeared. Swinging and swingers were our social life. It was a mistake. We’re now 60’s, retired. have no interest in swinging or swingers….or…each other. You see, swinging kept us together when the natural course of events would have let us separate and find people we were truly in love with. Now we’re an older couple that sleeps in separate rooms that hardly speak. Those years swinging ruined my life and hers. I’d say we hate each other but we don’t talk that much.
    It may be too late for you. The intoxication of groups sex is almost unbelievable. Once you try it, everything else is second rate….with bisexual women it is almost hypnotic and brother, all women are bisexual. Good luck but you’re likely doomed.

    1. I believe you. I’ve heard that story many times, the first time about fifty years ago! It’s what kept me from going down that road, and also made me break up with a girl, nice in many ways, who had been into it since she was in her early twenties. Her stories of anal sex, orgies and affairs were something I felt that I just couldn’t compete with, even though she swore blind she didn’t need it any more. The fact that she kept seeing her previous (married) boyfriend for several months after we hooked up didn’t exactly enhance her credibility either!

    2. So true. I know literally hundreds who have said the same.

      Myself included. It is easier for a fly to escape the spiders web than to escape the intoxication of group sex or any illicit sex, for that matter. I did. But only by miracle.

      I agree: the poor man is most likely doomed. As is his relationship.
      To the poor man. If your heart is not already completely hardened, go get help. Counseling, God, religion, or philosophy. Anything. But run, don’t walk. Flee for your life!

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