Comments on: i am in love with my husbands brother…. http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/i-am-in-love-with-my-husbands-brother Confess your deepest, darkest secret Sun, 15 Jan 2012 05:12:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Anonymous http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/i-am-in-love-with-my-husbands-brother/comment-page-1#comment-18614 Anonymous Thu, 11 Aug 2011 04:37:08 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=5975#comment-18614 I am going through the same thing.. i got married at the age of 19 and have a 2 year old.. i am in love with my bil.. how do i tell this to my husband? :( I am going through the same thing.. i got married at the age of 19 and have a 2 year old.. i am in love with my bil.. how do i tell this to my husband? :(

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/i-am-in-love-with-my-husbands-brother/comment-page-1#comment-15005 Anonymous Tue, 19 Apr 2011 23:24:58 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=5975#comment-15005 All right, no one else is going to bring it up, so I'll play the "shoe on the other foot" card. -- If this was a husband in love with his wife's sister, would everyone tell him to leave? -- If the husband in this case isn't around much because he has another woman he's in love with, do we say "good for him!" ? Is there a gender double standard here? All right, no one else is going to bring it up, so I’ll play the “shoe on the other foot” card.

– If this was a husband in love with his wife’s sister, would everyone tell him to leave?

– If the husband in this case isn’t around much because he has another woman he’s in love with, do we say “good for him!” ?

Is there a gender double standard here?

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/i-am-in-love-with-my-husbands-brother/comment-page-1#comment-14976 Anonymous Mon, 18 Apr 2011 17:03:15 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=5975#comment-14976 hun, i can completely understand where you are at... beacause this is hard for me to say, especially with anyone that can read this, but i too am having an affair with my brother in law, and he loves and adores me, and treats me and the kids like we are supposed to be treated, and my husband does not.. i have been in an affair with him for almost 4 years.. i am still with my husband but plan on leaving very very soon, it eats me alive that i picked the wrong brother to marry.. me and my brother in law liked each other before me and my husband got together but neither one of us told the other until about 4 years ago, and we went from there.. we are madly in love with each other, and we cant wait to be with each other.. my husband and i were having problems way before me and my brother in law told each other how we felt about each other and what we meant to each other.. me and my brother in law are in love, and feel like we are soulmates, that we are meant to be together.. when i reading your post, it sounded exactly like my story.. im so thankful that im not the only one.. the only difference between you and i is i no longer love my husband, he is a monster to me and the kids, and the man im meant to be with is my brother in law.. i have never been so happy, never felt so loved and appreciated in my entire life.. i really cant wait til me and my brother in law are together and happy like we were meant to be.. i can tell you to forget about your husband and go with your brother in law, hes the man for you and you and him, and the kids should be together as a family.. i wish you the best of luck hun, and i know exactly how you feel... thank you for making me feel better also, knowing that im not the only one that is going thru this... i wish you the best of luck, and go for the brother in law.. that's what im doing and i know its the right choice!! you and the kids deserve to be happy and be treated like the way your brother in law treats you!! good luck hun!!! hun, i can completely understand where you are at… beacause this is hard for me to say, especially with anyone that can read this, but i too am having an affair with my brother in law, and he loves and adores me, and treats me and the kids like we are supposed to be treated, and my husband does not.. i have been in an affair with him for almost 4 years.. i am still with my husband but plan on leaving very very soon, it eats me alive that i picked the wrong brother to marry.. me and my brother in law liked each other before me and my husband got together but neither one of us told the other until about 4 years ago, and we went from there.. we are madly in love with each other, and we cant wait to be with each other.. my husband and i were having problems way before me and my brother in law told each other how we felt about each other and what we meant to each other.. me and my brother in law are in love, and feel like we are soulmates, that we are meant to be together.. when i reading your post, it sounded exactly like my story.. im so thankful that im not the only one.. the only difference between you and i is i no longer love my husband, he is a monster to me and the kids, and the man im meant to be with is my brother in law.. i have never been so happy, never felt so loved and appreciated in my entire life.. i really cant wait til me and my brother in law are together and happy like we were meant to be.. i can tell you to forget about your husband and go with your brother in law, hes the man for you and you and him, and the kids should be together as a family.. i wish you the best of luck hun, and i know exactly how you feel… thank you for making me feel better also, knowing that im not the only one that is going thru this… i wish you the best of luck, and go for the brother in law.. that’s what im doing and i know its the right choice!! you and the kids deserve to be happy and be treated like the way your brother in law treats you!! good luck hun!!!

]]> By: Xenophobic http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/i-am-in-love-with-my-husbands-brother/comment-page-1#comment-7250 Xenophobic Mon, 14 Jun 2010 15:05:08 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=5975#comment-7250 Fuck you. Why is it always about threesomes? Is that ALL ppl care about? People are like fuckin bugs. ONLY instinct they listen to is to mate. Fucking disgusting. **** you. Why is it always about threesomes? Is that ALL ppl care about? People are like ****** bugs. ONLY instinct they listen to is to mate. ******* disgusting.

]]> By: Xenophobic http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/i-am-in-love-with-my-husbands-brother/comment-page-1#comment-7249 Xenophobic Mon, 14 Jun 2010 15:03:56 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=5975#comment-7249 People are idiots sometimes. Your MARRIED to someone already. Which means OFF THE MARKET. GET OVER YOURSELF. YOU CANT JUST TAKE WHOEVER YOU WANT HE BELONGS TO SOMEONE ELSE. GET YOUR OWN LIFE IN ORDER WOMAN. People are idiots sometimes. Your MARRIED to someone already. Which means OFF THE MARKET. GET OVER YOURSELF. YOU CANT JUST TAKE WHOEVER YOU WANT HE BELONGS TO SOMEONE ELSE. GET YOUR OWN LIFE IN ORDER WOMAN.

]]> By: W http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/i-am-in-love-with-my-husbands-brother/comment-page-1#comment-6699 W Sun, 23 May 2010 11:42:40 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=5975#comment-6699 If you look at what Kav wrote, he said that she has "something that is brilliant" (what she has with the brother) and "something that is rubbish" (what she has with her husband) Kav never mentioned a brilliant situation. :P I don't think you understood what Kev wrote. If you look at what Kav wrote, he said that she has “something that is brilliant” (what she has with the brother) and “something that is rubbish” (what she has with her husband)

Kav never mentioned a brilliant situation. :P

I don’t think you understood what Kev wrote.

]]> By: alwaysalez http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/i-am-in-love-with-my-husbands-brother/comment-page-1#comment-6695 alwaysalez Sun, 23 May 2010 06:16:57 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=5975#comment-6695 go be by yourself for awhile, stay away from them both go be by yourself for awhile, stay away from them both

]]> By: Bubear50 http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/i-am-in-love-with-my-husbands-brother/comment-page-1#comment-5440 Bubear50 Wed, 24 Feb 2010 01:19:58 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=5975#comment-5440 On second thought. You think you and your husband & your brother in law would be open to a 3some??? On second thought. You think you and your husband & your brother in law would be open to a 3some???

]]> By: Sneaky http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/i-am-in-love-with-my-husbands-brother/comment-page-1#comment-5433 Sneaky Tue, 23 Feb 2010 07:47:50 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=5975#comment-5433 Stop tricking yourself. You really want your husband to just love you...appreciate you...breathe you. This "In love with brother" is an excuse to write this confession. You just need to confess that you need courage to speak up--create some movement and type of something to hhelp express your neglect but not a brother thing. LEAVE for you...seperate from negativity so you can see straight! Because if you love brother all that much, you can easily love ex-hubby if you decide to choose your brother...then what??? Especially if ex-hubby comes around and tries to sweep you off your feet??? Will you take him back...oh wait, but you might be prego with brother's kid. All I'm saying is just date if you leave hubby, before commiting on this fantasy brother. Plus a brother that can betray blood can betray his wife. It seems to me that he's taking advantage! Stop tricking yourself. You really want your husband to just love you…appreciate you…breathe you. This “In love with brother” is an excuse to write this confession. You just need to confess that you need courage to speak up–create some movement and type of something to hhelp express your neglect but not a brother thing.

LEAVE for you…seperate from negativity so you can see straight! Because if you love brother all that much, you can easily love ex-hubby if you decide to choose your brother…then what??? Especially if ex-hubby comes around and tries to sweep you off your feet??? Will you take him back…oh wait, but you might be prego with brother’s kid. All I’m saying is just date if you leave hubby, before commiting on this fantasy brother. Plus a brother that can betray blood can betray his wife. It seems to me that he’s taking advantage!

]]> By: Bubear50 http://www.secret-confessions.com/spouse/i-am-in-love-with-my-husbands-brother/comment-page-1#comment-5367 Bubear50 Fri, 12 Feb 2010 11:19:13 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=5975#comment-5367 Man talk about a can of totally messed up crap. Man talk about a can of totally messed up crap.

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