I am in an unhappy marriage
Posted by Diana in Spouse on Jun 22nd, 2010 | 2 commentshe used to beat me, now he abuses me verbally. Sometimes he says he loves me and misses me. Usually he calls me a b**** and lazy. I try to be a good wife/mother, I am not perfect. I have had my share of mistakes. He wants me to pay for them. He says he loves me and wants to be with me forever, and at other times, he tells me about other women that want him, and that he’ll divorce me and be with the one he chooses. I love him, but I hate the way i feel. I feel like he is using me for sex. I am not happy with him, but I cannot let him go. I can’t be without him. i just want him to love me…truly…
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why do you think you can’t be without him? he used to beat you and now he verbally abuses you.. what do think it will be next?
i’m sorry i don’t mean to be insensitive but people like you frustrate me. you CAN get out, you CAN leave. you can go to a shelter, you can stay with family or friends until you get your life put back together..
do you enjoy being abused? i’m sorry but i have to say, i believe you do. it’s the year 2010, and i’m assuming that because your posting is in english, you live in a civilized country? you’re not in the middle east or a communist country..?
get out, be yourself, live for yourself…. you’re with an idiot, why do you want an idiot to love you? work on your issues, your kids don’t need to be in the environment they’re in,, what kind of behavior do you want them modeling?? yours or your “husbands”? he’s a weak pansy-man and a bully, get out
You can live without him! And it will be wonderful! Challenging and hard, but it will be wonderful.
Love yourself, cuz you are loveable.