Husband is a hypocrite

I’ve been married for 17 years and my husband has cheated on me for most if not all of them. He loves to live in his little world of make believe where he can F^@% anybody and I am supposed to sit her and live with weak sex in ignorant bliss. He takes pride in being the responsible church going family man on the outside and complete freak on the inside. He won’t give me oral but will suck off any man better than my vacuum cleaner. Every time we talk about it he always gives some piss poor lie of an excuse and then says how he loves me but continues to cheat. A few days ago I told him he’d been caught again but this time I didn’t care because I’d intended to have my fun as well. I wanted everything out in the open well that was like raid to him now he’s a clam snapping at me anytime I mention what’s he up to or me venturing out and doing the same. I know he got really pissed off the other day while we were out and I bought condoms. He probably thinks I’m going to make him wear them but they are really for when I go out on my own dates. I don’t care if we never have sex again and plan to divorce him as soon as my kids are out of high school in a couple years. Right now I just hate all men!

5 Responses to “ “Husband is a hypocrite”

  1. Just Human says:

    curious that you have made the choice every day over the last 17 years to stay with him, no one is making you.

    • I'm not saying your crazy, but... says:

      She probably only stayed for the kids all these years, and she may not have known he was cheating when she had his kids, but yes I know what your saying.

  2. Sam says:

    I agree with Just Human you are the one making yourself stay there. Leave and find a life that you want before it is too late to enjoy your life. No one is to blame for you staying except for you.

  3. Laura says:

    Wow, what an ass, you should leave him now, I’m just wondering why you’ve put up with it this long. It may be better for the kids if you leave him now, because your husband is setting a bad example for them.

  4. Truth hurts says:

    Truth: You are a “Beard” = Beard is a gay slang term describing a person who is used, knowingly or unknowingly, as a date, romantic partner, or spouse specifically to conceal one’s sexual orientation. With increasing acceptance of LGBT culture, references to beards are seen in mainstream television and movies as well as other entertainment. You put up with it for 17 years and you’ll keep putting up with it because your hubby turning gay is a blow to your ego. Unless maybe, just maybe your strong enough to think your not a “tool” to be used when needed. Naw if you were you would have left 17 years ago but hey good luck

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