I have been married for just over 2 years. We have 2 children together (boys), one is 20 months and the other 6 months.
My husband and I have so much in common that it is uncanny, yet there is a dark side to him. He will constantly beat, kick, slap me, whenever he feels like it. He will blame me for all things wrong in our lives and take credit for all good. He will slap me if he loses his phone, and will blame me for it, for example. OR if one of our sons cries, he will beat me up, claiming I am a bad mother.
He does not work, nor does he help me with the kids (he wanted). In addition my eldest kid screams at me all day and has now started to hit me (I think he has picked it up from his dad). My husband spends most his days with his family and not with me.
Now I know you all must be saying GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT!! BUT it is not that easy, because aside from the times he beats me, we get on amazingly (and ironically have even been name the golden couple amongst friends and family). Also I do love him, and dont think I could cope with the kids on my own. I do love my kids but he pressured me into having the first one when I unexpectedly fell pregnant and also pushed for the second, which I conceded in giving him.
What should I do?