hate my exhusband
Posted by Marie in Spouse on Jun 2nd, 2010 | 10 commentsWhen in the world will you stand up and be a man, I gave you the info and your still not going to help me, our daughter is in danger, she’s taking X and you think its no big deal… are you kidding me WTF your not suppose to be her buddy you moron, your her father, the man who is suppose to kick anyones butt if they hurt her… guess what jack this drug will KILL HER if WE are her parents dont do something NOW not wait for something more like her DIE and say I should have done something.. I dont want to be that parent… and I dont care I will ask for help from everyone…. that includes YOUR family, hate me all you want… but I will NOT sit back and let all this happen>> I WONT!!!!! Suck it up Princess you have to be a father!
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Thats well said…BUT what are you doing about it? Chances are she has turned to drugs cause of your acrimonious breakup.
You all need family counseling…AS A FAMILY!!!!
I pray you get help and save your child
I just went to him with that idea, I alone have been seeing counselling for years, childhood drama, miscarriage, divorce, and now all this, I went to him, begged him, humbled myself to him, he thinks I still hold a grudge for our divorce, which I dont, he’s the one that left, not me, we both are in relationships and the man I am with now, is nothing like my ex, my ex was very hot tempered, spoiled selfish man, and my bf now, is totally oppostie of this, anyhow I cried, and begged him for us all to be supportive to her, because obviously she is screaming out to us, and I as her mother will do whatever it takes to help her… He wants to be her buddy and put his head in the sand and ignore it all…. this all is just so unfair.. TO HER!!!!
as a mom stop thinking about your ex this is YOUR daughter. instead of feeling like screaming all the time just breath u need to have a day where YOU think about whats going on with your life. And help your daughter the best way that will help HER. I know you have a lot of anger from your **** husband and your daughter doing drugs. But anger is waste of energy, your daughter probably sees her dad as this cool guy and you as the annoying mom who just nags her all the time. You need to be open with your daughter actually talk to her as a person not as a girl who is screwing up her life. Maybe you will learn things about her that you never knew
This is all very true, but by talking to her, she shuts me out, I’ve given the world to years all her life, untill she decided to live with her dad, which I know why she left, cause she doesnt have to have accountability for anything, its a come and go as you please just let me know where you are, but I being her mom, know where she is and what she’s doing, at my house, the punishment fit the crime, I wasnt that bad of a nagging mom, Im sure I’m like most, but when trust, honesty, and respect are gone, it makes things even worse. She has stole from us, she has lied, which yes I know most teens do, but you see, I have been very open about everything with my girls, we’ve had frank open talks about whatever they wanted, and I never told them lies.. I was honest… they never were afraid of me, which is what I wanted, so that communication was always there, now, add drugs to this and its so not my child… she’s not herself, and I get the rath of anger, she hates me, I lie, Im a B, this all just sucks.. TEENS suck! I’ve asked for advise all moms of teens that are grown and gone say they all are like this…. MAN OH MAN>> NO WONDER WOMEN GET GREY HAIR!!! LOL
Thanks for helping ; )
you have a live in boyfriend? IMO, you should not have any kind of live in while you have a minor child. don’t you know that a lot of men will prey on woman with teen daughter? and even if that’s not the case, its still a really bad example to set for your daughter. i do agree, her father sounds like a loser but you should do your part by continuing to devote yourself to your daughter and not some guy
I waited years before I even got a boyfriend once my ex left me, I didnt do anything for YEARS. This new man, who is amazing, knows that my girls come first, my girls know that they come first. I came from sexual abuse, and trust me, my radar is on 7/24 before he moved in, I watched every move he made, every gesture, and I felt nothing, we arent scared of him, and I see how he is with him own daughter, I can explain it, he is totally opposite to my ex, he’s patient, kind, loving, compasionate, a true gentleman, loves his mama, just there isnt anything I’ve noticed that rang the alarm, so, that isnt the issue, the issue is my daughter doing XTC and Im scared out of my mind, and there isnt a darn thing I can do.. NOTHING… I feel so disregarded from her life, and she loves it, cause I cant “punish” her, like.. grounding.. or take away the computer… ohhhh those are just soooo bad… anyways, thanks for your opinion ; )
idk what to say except i am in a situation VERY similar to this, my ex is another princess, so much a princess he’s a crossdresser, YUCK! ugliest “woman” EVER!
OMG Anon, that so made me laugh!!!!! just when I thought I had it rough!!!! you my friend def having it rougher! nothing worse then a ugly princess/man
thanks for making me smile ; )
my situation hasnt got any better…. guess there is nothing I can do, but hope for the best,
take care
Marie
lol, but yeah, thankfully the homely princess is gone!
can you get your daughter drug tested and in a program for drug-addicted teens? or hospitalized?
oh I suggested the best way she can shut me up is lets go down to our doctor, all he needs is a strand of her hair, ohhh she wasnt up for that at all, cause she knows.. that I know.. that she did drugs that weekend.. and… that she probably smoked pot just that day…. so,… its easier to make me look like the nut mother, then to actually own up to her own choices… ya know… I wrote her a letter today, emailed it, so we’ll see how this goes.. keep ya posted ; )