I hate my husband. he tricked me into being with him, by pretending he was an active, safe, secure, succesful man. and less than a year after we got married, he fell the f*** apart. i found out that everything was a lie, our house didnt belong to us, his parents had given him the money, our wedding wasnt paid for by us, his parents again. he is seven years older than me, so he wanted to have kids right away. by the time i figured out what a loser he is, i was already pregnant. he gained about 40 pounds in the first year we were married, and has only ever lost it when i separated from him. i found out that he had part of his paycheck sent to a separate account for spending money for fast food and restaurants that i had no idea about. at the same time lying to me about working out and eating right and not able to figure out why he’s gaining weight. i later was confronted my the police early one morning in my driveway on the way to drop my children at school. they arrested him for theft and mail fraud. he spent three days in jail. i didnt bail him out, neither did i accept him into our home after he got out. he lost weight only to try to get me back. yet again he tricked me. became everything that i had been asking him to be, so i allowed him to move back in. gained all the weight back and more. cant have sex now because hes so f****** huge. but if I cheat…somehow im the bad guy. cut to last week, my valubles are going missing. hes f****** selling them on craigslist. lying and saying he isnt. he fell and hurt himself last week and i dont even care. he slept in and missed my daughters first day of high school. he has slept in every day since. i dont even care. i wish he’d die.