Cheater
Posted by anon in Spouse on Aug 23rd, 2008 | 11 commentsI have been sleeping with this man for over a year. We are both married. I feel no regret or guilt. He is the best lover that I have ever had in my life. We have an amazing physical and emotional connection. I am on another planet when he kisses me. I don’t want him to leave his wife and I don’t want to leave my husband. Life is too short to not grab and keep something like this. We set each other on fire. I know the limits or our relationship and I am fine with that. He is like a drug and this is my only vice. Selfish? Yes. Stupid? Of course. And there is always the chance of getting caught. But will I stop? Hell, no.
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My friend..wat u r doing is wrong!! And u will never realise until its too late! GOD said in the bible that “THOU SHALL NOT COMMIT ADULTERY” and on top of that its been a year!! Man people in the world needs to start thinking about “others” and not only themselves. Imagine how ur husband would feel if he found out!!? Im 17 years old and I find it so nerve wracking to cheat!! Ur article bothers me because I have a aunt who is married and shes cheating on her husband with another married man…*I wont get into that story* However…even tho im jus a young teenage girl..it would be great if u took my advice and STOP what u are doing!!!
REALITY CHECK HERE:- That married man is only using u for sex!!!!! When he gets tired he’s gonna leave u and no-one will get hurt but YOU and ur innocent husband (behind his back).
PLEASE STOP WHAT U R DOING…ITS NO GOOD!!!
Well, being a 17yr old mahself…i wont like to speak much here cuz right now, considering the heaven ur in for d given moment, you surely wouldnt understand if I try n explain u dat ur in d wrong…but i jus wanna say dat the above comment by SHERIKA is very true…n I agree wid her! I understnd d lust involved…n ur emotional n physical needs dat dis man satisfies for you, but whats ur husband fault in all dis? N how long do u think this is gonna continue…before everyones world starts to fall apart cuz of dis cheating n lie…u have to set ur path right…nywayz its upto u…i cant see u changing ur way anywhere in d near future, seeing how free of guilt u are! everyone has a piece of dirty laundry…maybe u shud jus sweep this one below ur carpet now.
IM A MARRIED WOMAN MYSELF AND SOMETIMES I DO GET TEMPTED TO CHEAT. MY HUSBAND IS VERY MUCH FAITHFUL. WHEN YOU GET MARRIED YOUNG IT’S HARD BECAUSE YOU DIDN’T LIVE YOUR LIFE IN OTHER CASES IT COULD BE WHEN YOUR MARRIED FOR SO LONG IT GETS BORING AFTER WHILE AND YOU START LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO SPICE YOUR LIFE UP. YOU SHOULD TALK YOUR HUSBAND ABOUT SPICING UP THE RELATIONSHIP. ROLE PLAY HERE N THERE, GO OUT TO EAT OR MOVIES,PLAN A VACATION AND MORE SEX.
WHEN YOU HAVE TIME ON YOUR HAND AND YOUR HUSBAND ISN’T AROUND TRY TO OCCUPIED YOURSELF WITH ONLINE GAMES LIKE FAMILY FUED,DON’T ANSWER THE PHONE TO ANY OF BOY TOYS,THINK OF THINGS TO SUSPRISE YOUR HUSBAND WHEN HE GET HOME.YOU AND THAT DUDE HAVE IS JUST SEX BUT WITH YOUR HUSBAND HE MAKES LOVE TO YOU. DO YOU WANT TO REALLY TO KEEP RISKING YOUR MARRIED FOR A GUY THAT GIVES TWO SHIT ABOUT YOU. HE PROBABLY NOT ONLY SLEEPING WITH YOU BUT OTHERS AND DO YOU KNOW THERES AIDS/HIV/STD OUT THERE DO YOU WANNA GET THAT IN YOUR SYSTEM AND GIVE IT TO YOUR HUSBAND. COME OUT THE FANTASY WORLD STOP CHEATING. YOU CAN’T HIDE IT FOR TO LONG LOOK AT THE GOVERNOR OF NY,BILL CLINTON AND THE LIST GOES ON.STOP CHEATING KARMA IS A BITCH!!!
Have a good time! If you think that his wife and your husband are dumb think again! Hope you like the streets because your going to loose everything you have ever owned and possibly your kids!
Hello? She’s using HIM for sex as much as he’s using her. Stop being so sexist.
Women for some reason don’t realize that when they put men into situations like this. Sometimes they snap. This type of shit is why people get murdered. Hopefully it will just be you or your mantoy, and not any of the kids.
looks like “reality” needs a reality check. thats not why ppl snap. when someone snaps and murders everyone around its because there is already an underlying issue that was bound to manifest itself.
The reason she cheats is because it’s “like a drug”. I’d say a drug addiction is a good comparison for women in an affair. Lots of highs and lows. It starts off so great that it’s beyond your imagining and you know you’d have withdrawal to go through if you stopped.
Lots of married women have affairs. It’s more common than most think. It will not necessarily mean the end of your marriage if you’re caught either. I caught my wife 3 years ago. I was able to forgive and forget after a couple of months and things are going great now.
… Women do things like this, then call the cops playing all innocent when the husband comes home from work early and beats the crap out of his wife for cheating on her…Talk about abusing the system.
YOu should get a life if you’re living a lie. I’m a 17 years old boy, and you’re not a good wife to your husband. Hope you will be punished the way you deserve. YOur husband doesn’t deserve this, does he? Does your kids deserve this? If my mom would be in an affair….I would kill that guy ….so think twice….sometimes…your actions affect your children’s morality
So what ever happened? Are you still cheating? The WORD says be sure your sins will find you out… That is definitely true… Hopefully you turn away from it, He who the Son sets free is free indeed……..