My husband’s penis is very small. I would never tell him that and I know size isn’t supposed to matter but I can’t help wishing he was bigger. I love him with all my heart so I would never consider having sex with anyone else, I just can’t help fantasizing about having something inside of me bigger than a finger.
Well, if you want something a little bigger, not humongous, you might try a ***** that he can wear. Of course he has to be willing try and he must feel you just want to try something different not someone new.
I have been married a long time 25+ years so my marriage may be different, but I use a large ***** on my wife. I’m average in size. It is a kind of big for sure but I don’t really care, as I know that my wife does care for me. There is a such a thing as being too small or too big. But something different is also nice….not better per say.
Zac
trust me on this, bigger isn’t better
having BIG jammed into you is uncomfortable and you’d be writing about how you wish it were smaller then.
the relationship is worth more, stop wishing I guess. for me, most of what’s happening, is in the first three inches anyway, the rest I can’t really tell about, but for the sense of a pressure? I’ll take smaller anyday
oh by the way, guys who feel they have to tell you about their BIG thing? It’s a complete turn off and probably all they have going for them seriously
I have ten inches, and my wife always cheated on me with guys who were bigger. She said she needed at least twelve inches to feel satisfied. And we did use huge ******, but it still wasn’t enough for her. I guess with some women it’s never enough.
Forget about the wishing it was bigger, Go for the tongue. He does know how to work that doesnt he? I’ll take tongue over “it” any day as long as they know what they are doing and where they are going with it.
I am so glad you love your man so much. I think you could talk to him about using toys and such for a different experience and to spice up your sex life. Maybe you could start by doing something new to him. That may make him more open to try something new with you like a larger vibrator. As for the tongue…I have only found one guy who knew what he was doing with it and I ended up marrying him…yay!…but I could drop that any day for the real deal. I understand what you’re saying. There just isn’t a good cure for that, I’m sorry.
Oh, one more thing. If you don’t use toys already, or even if you do, there is a kit you can buy discreetly online called Clone-a-Willy that will make an exact copy of his man part and you can get it to be a vibrator. I did this with my man and I get very happy and so does he. My man wanted me to have a toy, he was just a touch insecure about it being bigger than him, so this works out for us. He is average sized I would say, but I still know what you are talking about.
One way to convince your husband to use a large ***** on you is to offer him your backside at the same time. I enjoy anal sex much more when my partner is smaller. While I have never done it with two men, the double penetration feels incredible.
Hi Spouse,
Your comment sounds exactly like my wife’s sister’s complaint. My wife works for a urology office and she tells me I’m bigger than average. I don’t consider myself “porn star” huge, but she enjoys our time together, so maybe size does matter somewhat. Definitley folllow some of the suggestions here (if you haven’t already) about using a life-like toy. They come in all colors and sizes and I’m sure your hubby would love to explore the new dimensions this type of stimulation would give you!