The Virgin
Posted by Name Withheld in Sex on Feb 28th, 2010 | 21 commentsI’m a 34 years man and I’m still a virgin. Hell, I’ve never even kissed a woman. And I’m slowly coming to terms with the fact that I’ll never lose my virginity because women don’t like to screw virgins.
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Sounds to me like you have impossibly high expectations/standards. Remember there are professional women out there that you can pay for services.
So stop BS’ing you and us and get your life back ontrack
prostitutes arent the answer dude
thank you. that completely devalues women.
believe me, there are plenty of (attractive, younger) women who love the whole innocence thing.
Prostitution does devalue women, but it was the woman’s choice to be a prostitute.
you’re much better off, woman are a pain in the ass anyway, stay away from them.
I am sure you are not the only male virgin out there althought it may feel like it. I am going to assume you are a shy person who is not into going out to clubs or bars. Have you tried to locate any legitimate social groups for people who believe sex should be saved until marriage(you find a larger number of virgins or born again vigirns in these groups). They have groups for everything now. I am sure if given time you will find someone who will appreciate the fact you don’t want to just be with anybody.
I am a woman and I would have sex with a virgin. As long as someone is a nice person and cares for me deeply, I would have sex with him regardless of whether he had sex or not already.
What makes you think women do not want to have sex with a virgin? That’s ridiculous! My husband was a virgin when we got married and I was glad of that.
Thousands of women would have sex with a virgin man… I lost my virginity at 24. Don’t beat yourself up, forget what other people say, accept yourself, be nice to yourself. If you have problems with social anxiety, check out this website http://www.socialanxietyinstitute.org.
You’re right man. You have the curse of purity. When it comes to sex, you are in experienced and in the state of mind of a 16 to 19 year old. So in reality the only women on your level that might not care about your inexperience are women your age who managed to avoid sex for all those years…. or 16 to 19 year olds who most likely would think you are discussing at age 34. Not to mention the social stigma that comes with such an age gap. It’s a damn shame, because the right person for a virgin, especially one that is wise with years … is another virgin. And there just aren’t any anymore unless you go real young. You would be so good to a young virgin she wouldn’t even know what to so with herself. But … that’s a no. So … you are cursed dude. You missed the boat. You are behind the curve. But you are pure.
Im in my late 30′s and only have had sex with one person. Kissed and did a few other things with three others and that’s it. Take pride in the fact sex is something rare for you. Someone will get the prize you have to offer someday. And it’s priceless. People who start having sex in while they are young teens sometimes grow up with wicked ideas about what sex is, what it should be and what it means. Some of these people never snap out of it. They never learn. And people wonder why there is a high divorce rate. Everyone should lose their viginity to someone older and or wiser. Both men and women. Whoever said that it’s best that teens do each other to learn the experience has it backwards. From what I have seen all that happens is they hurt and confuse one another. There are better ways to learn love’s lessons.
Perhaps i’ve been misunderstood.I’m not saying underage should be with overage. Everyone should be waiting until they are old enough to be with someone older. Age of consent is 18 in most places. Anyone under that age should not be losing their virginity at all. Not to anyone. If people would follow the rules they would end up much happier and more level headed in the end. Some, if not most of the time.
unless you want to wait for Santa to come with a woman as an xmas gift then you could just wait.
There a lot of disparate women out there, you must be able to get one. If all women reject you, even the alcoholics and the lonely, then there must be something very unattractive about you as a person; physically or morally. Find the problem and work on it as best as you can. If that doesn’t work, then find people on the internet that have the same problem. You will probably get along better. Be honest with yourself, otherwise the only one you will be fooling is yourself.
Watch the 40 year old virgin.. proves even at your age you can loose it…
Coming from a female (me): I would rather have sex with a guy who is still a virgin. Good for you. Even if you didn’t want to be one, and I’m assuming you aren’t married, you’ve kept yourself whole. That makes you a thousand times more attractive already. The right person will come along someday. Don’t give it up to someone just for the heck of it. When it comes down to it, sex can be overrated.
I think your problem is more with getting to date than with having sex.
Join a matching site and don’t mention it upfront. When you get to sex just say you were saving for marriage but never happened so you’re doing it now because you like her and you’re not getting any younger.
im 19 year old woman, id rather sleep with a virgin then someone experinced, and anyway sex isnt as big a deal as everyone makes it out to be, given the choice i would like to be a virgin again
Dont go around telling the girls ur a virgin. Just pretendlike uve done it before, im sure uve seen enough porn to know how its done, but dont try and go all pornstar style ur first time, just stick with missionary, maybe some cowgirle/doggie style. Its a natural instinct to get laid, its like pogrammed in ur brain, comeon ur dad could do it, ull be fine.
Get a hooker, but a really good one. Dude, you owe it to yourself to buy one of them fine $1K women. Just don’t expect any emotional connection cuz you’ll get none. Just do it for the pure hormanal rage.
I hope your a virgin because you want to obey God’s commandment.