Sexually Deprived
Posted by Anonymous in Sex on Jan 16th, 2010 | 9 commentsI haven’t seen my husband for two months. He is currently deployed. You never know what you’re missing until you don’t have it. We are very sexually active couple. Now both of us have gone 60 or so days without any intimacy. Not gonna lie, my hormones are going crazy.
I’m committed to him and this marriage, I knew when I married him that deployment wasn’t going to be easy.
It is definitely not helping either, when a male friend of my husband approached me and wanting to go to movies, or dinner. Especially when he has flirted with me before the deployment happened (in front of my husband). It doesn’t feel right at all, to go out with a man alone on a date situation. Based on how my hormone have been lately, I’d probably maul anyone of an opposite sex.
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You two should have done what we did. Before my husband was deployed we had a week of threesome sex with a friend of his. My husband said I could **** his friend all I wanted when he was gone as long as I never ****** another man…and if he told my husband about each session in great detail. It’s working great.
Sounds to me like he isn’t much of a friend. He knows your need to scratch that “itch” and he comes around knowing your husband is gone. On the other hand maybe they had a talk and decided he was gonna scratch your itch while he was gone.
But it also sounds to me that you have already decided to do him anyway, you just have this need to justify your actions to lessen your guilt.
Good luck on this one. I wouldn’t put myself into a situation where you were likely to stumble.
I agree, it sounds like you already know what you are going to do, the question is when. It has only been two months, and you think you can last? Coming from someone that has been there, done that, but I was the one deployed – you won’t last. With the way you are talking to early into this, you still have a long way to go, and it will only get harder. Good luck, do what you gotta do, but first I suggest porn and toys to try and curb that desire.
I’m sorry to hear that, but you should stay strong, and stay true to your husband. That way, when he gets back, it will seem extra special. Good luck. :)
The cheating starts the second you lie to your husband about the other guy. Protect your marriage – tell you husband everything. It’ll keep you from crossing the line with the other guy, show your husband that you love him, respect him, and that he can trust you. Tell him your horny and have phone sex with him.
If you let anything happen (or even start to happen) with that other guy it will destroy your husband and he’ll never trust you again. And he’ll never feel the same way about you again. Trust me…
wow, just wow. seriously? you are the women that make us military wives look bad. hell yeah im horney we are a very active couple as well and he is deployed, about 1 1/2 months now and i would never even consider cheating on him. he is over there risking his life for us to have what we need. get a damn *****. roleplay though emails with him. send pics and video-keep it alive between the 2 of you-and think about the night he gets back!!!!!!!!! the amazing sex. please-dont be another military whore
So your husband is a soldier. Trained to kill. And your plan is to cheat on him with his ”friend”?… Wow.