Sex with boss….

I am sleeping with my boss who is also a pastor at a church and is married with children. I try to stop and I can’t. It really affects my work on some days. I like my job and don’t want to find a new one especially in these hard times. I had so much respect for him and thought so highly of him after being burned by other men that I thought he was “real” only to find out that he is just like the rest of them… But it doesn’t say much for me either.. I don’t know why I even do it or am attached.. the sex isn’t even good. I guess it’s my own lonliness and wanting attention. Who knows… I wish I did…

9 Responses to “ “Sex with boss….”

  1. anon says:

    here you go/ you are right on the mark
    on these tough times/ and god bless
    women who are born to have some fun .hehe

  2. Anonymous says:

    What ever your personal self-esteem issues are they do not justify you sleeping with a married man, let alone a married man with children. Those children do not deserve that and things like that can ruin a child’s psyche for life. His wife doesn’t deserve it either. You need to leave that job…no job is worth your dignity and self respect…you are using that as an excuse. You will find another job, just pray about it and believe it, God will make it happen. You should be ashamed of yourself and you’re right you can’t lay the blame solely on him, you are a consenting adult. Leave now, he’s gross and despicable for what he’s doing and if you continue you are the exact same.

  3. Bubear50 says:

    Well you basically have 4 choices. You can 1. Continue the affair
    2. End the affair & lose you job because it will become possible hostile.
    3. Find another job, tell his wife & move on.
    4. Get pregnant by him, tell his wife and you two marry after she divorces him.

    No matter how you slice it the outcome is not good.

  4. GET SERIOUS says:

    WELL ILL SAY THIS MUCH TO YOU IF YOU REALLY TRIED LIKE YOU SAY YOU DID YOUD END IT IF YOU REALLY WANT TO I MEAN COME ON YOU ARE WRECKING A MARRIAGE NOT MUCH TO SAY FOR THE PASTOR HIMSELF SHAME ON HIM AND WORSE YOU I MEAN WHEN HE PREACHES DO YOU ACTUALLY SIT THERE AND LISTEN YOU SAY THE SEX ISNT GOOD MMM BUT YET YOURE LIKE STILL HANGING ON TO SOMETHING WELL CAN I ASK IS IT MONEY CAUSE LETS BE REAL IN TODAYS WORLD IF A WOMAN IS GOING THAT FAR TO BE WITH SOMEONE ELSES MAN SHES IN IT FOR SOMETHING AND MOST OF THE TIME ITS MONEY AND SOMETIMES ITS SEX AND THE MONEY YOU NEED TO GET YOUR MIND RIGHT SET YOUR PRIORITIES STRAIGHT YOU SAY YOU DONT WANT TO LOOSE YOUR JOB BECAUSE YOU LOVE WHAT YOU DO WELL LET ME ASK YOU THIS WHAT IS IT EXACTLY YOU DO BESIDES DOING YOUR BOSS HUH LOOK IF YOU SOO TRUST AND BELIEVE IN GOD YOU KNOW HE ALWAYS PROVIDES FOR HIS CHILDREN YOU IS THE ONE THAT NEED TO HAVE FAITH THAT IT WILL BE DONE NOW AIANT ASYING FOR YOU TO GO AND QUIT OFF THE BAT BUT START LOOKING AROUND FOR WHATEVER IT IS YOU DO ELSE WHERE THEN AND IF AND WHEN THAT DOOR OR WINDOW OPENS UP YOU TURN IN YOUR RESIGNATION LETTER AND BE OUT DONE MOVE ON AND JUST SO YOU KNOW YOURE THE ONE THATS RESPONSIBLE FOR WHAT YOU DO NOBODY ELSE IS OK DONT BE MAKING TIRED EXCUSES GROW A BACKBONE RESPECT YOURSELF AND BELIEVE IN YOURSELF THAT YOU DESERVE BETTER MUCH BETTER A MAN WHOSE YOURS AND NOBODY ELSES A MAN THAT YOU WOULDNT WANT TO BE SHARING WITH SOMEONE SO THINK ABOUT YOUR ACTIONS AND HOW YOU WOULD PLAN TO BE AN EXAMPLE FOR YOUR FUTURE KIDS IF BY ANY CHANCE YOU WANT KIDS REMEMBER THE SINS OF PARENTS OFTEN FALL ON CHILDREN

    • Anonymous says:

      I agree with “a-dad” below. Turn off the caps lock…and maybe consider some punctuation like a “period” every now and again. This was all one run-on sentence and was very difficult to read….

    • Laura says:

      Woah, chill OUT dude, yeah, I know she’s a ****, and I agree with you, but there is no need to yell.

    • Anon says:

      Seriously.. Punctuation. I couldn’t even read that rant…

  5. a-dad says:

    Holy cow turn the caps off and learn how to spell dude!!

  6. GossipBoy says:

    Adultery and GOD saw BOTH OF YOU.

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