My ex was horrible in bed. I don’t know why I spent as many years with him as I did. I secretly lusted after a few of his friends. I’d dream of all of the things I could do to them if I had the chance. Now that I am single once again all I can think about it sex. I go out to bars on the weekends looking to hookup with men. I haven’t followed through yet. But it is all I can think about. One of these nights I am going to meet someone and have amazing sex with them. Is it bad that I can’t wait for that night??
It’s not bad, we are sexual beings after all BUT don’t pick up someone at a bar. That’s not safe at all. Horrible things have happened to women who do that, don’t let your self be one of them. Don’t do anything stupid..
BTW, my ex was horrible in bed too and I spent close to twenty years with him so don’t feel bad. Good luck
AIDS!
not a bad thing at all… After I got divorced, all I wanted to do was have sex with every thing in a skirt… I’ve had the best sex since I’ve been divorced. Kinda messed up but true.
good luck…
No. Thats definitely not bad. The first two times I had sex, well, they were horrible, but the third, well that was definitely the magic number. Find an attractive friends, and you could make a new habit out of it. :) Friends with benefits, no strings. But bars, and the internet, that’s a quick way to embarressment at the doctors office, or worse. But it’s not wrong, it’s not bad, it’s perfectly normal.
Get yourself a nice silicone vibrator… and enjoy all the possibilities, while you are alone.
Bad in bed? Try loving someone before you jump in the sack with them. If you love someone enough … sex is just good even if it really isnt by anyone elses standards. It is what we make it. It takes two to tango, doesn’t mean one or the other is horrible at it. Its just not the right match.
Yeah, some people are bad in bed. They can be selfish, uncaring, distant, weird fetishists, etc..
Believe me, I know
“dumbfounded”that was very intelligent, your absolutely right with your statement
“Is it bad that I can’t wait for that night?”
Ninety percent of the people who get sexually trandmitted diseases get them from strangers they meet in bars and other meet markets, etc.
So I guess waiting for that event is better than getting into it now.
Condoms do not protect you from std’s unless you also wear gloves, don’t kiss or do anything else.
Just pray and ask God to find you a good husband. Sex is not worth dying for !!