sex addiction?
Posted by blahhhhhh in Sex on Nov 27th, 2009 | 7 commentsI love my girlfriend…. but today i slept with another woman who she considers to be a very close and trustworthy friend. and i get online and have sex on webcam. Up until 6 months ago, i’ve never cheated on anyone. ever. why now that i’m in late 30′s? I am a gay woman and i am even having webcam sex with men sometimes. Perhaps i have developed a sex addiction… i don’t know….
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I think you should go see a therapist about this. But that’s just my opinion.
Lets see you are a lesbian who by your very nature incapable of monogamy AND you occasionally have webcam sex which amounts to mutual masterbation.
Gee what a dilema!!! You are not in need of a therapist. You are basically damaged goods who decided to have sexual & personal relations with women. Plain & simple.
When you decide to be normal again you will be happier!!!
bubear: if you are going to be retarded, just don’t bother to comment at all. thanks. I mean, really…… incapable of monogamy b/c i’m a lesbian? That doesn’t even make any sense. Your solution is that i need some **** in my life instead of women and then all will be roses??? Brilliant.
It’s hard to say whether or not you have developed an addiction per se…it really depends I guess on how much time you devote to the behavior/action or how much it consumes your thoughts. As for remaining faithful…could there be a deeper underlying problem that would cause you to seek intimacy elsewhere. If so, perhaps resolve that issue and then maybe you may find yourself a little more at peace.
(I don’t condone same-sex relationships, but I can understand how you may be frustrated with this situation).
Didn’t realize there were so many people “still” against same sex relationships. I mean hello we’re in the 21st century people.
To you: I’d say maybe you’re bored with your sex life & searching for something exciting. The web cam sex isn’t that bad but cheating is. I’d either 1. STOP CHEATING or 2. Tell your partner & move on.
Cheating is much more hurtful & with her best friend, girl come on. You knew that would kill her when you did it. You need to stop or come clean.
I’m ashame at the fact 1/2 or more of this country cheats so often stand up for what you believe in. Remember your morals & vaules seriouly…
Well it’s one of our good friends… not really her best friend, but yeah….. i realize how shitty it is… Something very weird has transpired between us all and, well… she knows about it now but our relationship is actually getting better. also, i didn’t sleep with her again so that is good i guess lol. Thanks to most people for being nice!
I don’t think you’re quite at the sex addiction level just yet. But this is something you need to talk to your partner about. I can’t guarantee anything good will come out of it, but you never know. My last girlfriend was very supportive if people confessed that they had a problem…but my current wife doesn’t care at all. I had confessed that before I met her, I had had sex with a man, and that I had a porn and sec addiction at the time. I guess I should have confessed it before we got married. We’ve been in a loveless marriage now for 2 years. Enough about that…I don’t know what type of person your partner is, but nothing good can come from all these secrets you’re keeping. They will continue to eat you up, and possibly take you further into your possible addiction.
As for the whole gay thing, I’m Christian and do believe that homosexuality is a sin…HOWEVER, I am a mature adult and know that not everyone shares my beliefs. I have no problem with gays getting married. EVERYONE is a human being thus deserve equal rights. I felt I needed to share this so that you know that there are even Christians out there who don’t have a problem with gays. We believe you live a life of sin, but we’re mature enough to understand you have rights as well. Not everyone shares our religious views, and we’re mature enough to understand and respect that.