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Posted by anonymous in Sex on Aug 21st, 2010 | 28 commentsmy boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex with me anymore…i’m so wondering why…am i not enough???i can do better for sure..and it really makes me sad knowing that he’s not interested anymore in making love with me:((
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I was married for a long time to someone like that, IMO, they’re probably gay
Maybe he strayed and is afraid he caught something.
IDK: i’m sure he’s not gay.he’s even an athlete and very active in bed with me. i mean if you just know how good he is in bed or in the sofa or anywhere else where we could have sex.
allan: my boyfriend is having sex only with me. and i don’t make love with other guys except him so i’m 100% sure that there’s no diseases or something.
I’m being mean but from a guy point he’s not n to u anymore.these things happen all the x. Next x do have sex with a guy until he has proven he loves u. MAKE HIM WAIT!! Most ladies r just too easy and no guy will have respect for u after that.
well, i’m definitely sure he’s still interested in me..we just went out for a date last weekend and it went out very well. we talked about him not wanting to have sex with me and it’s all settled. we had a very nice talk about it and now i understand. it’s not that he’s not interested in me anymore or he’s gay or he was infected…well, the talk is between the two of us anyway.haha
that’s why you should wait until you are MARRIED to have sex
haha no one could tell..maybe in the future we’ll be sexually active with each other again..
Wait until your married to find out that the other person is lousy in bed or frigid or has homosexual tendencies or God knows what..? No thank you!
sex is not lousy with someone you love
Yes, people can be lousy in bed, even if they love you if they are cold, or have addictions or in denial about their problems… What’s the difference between being in love or just thinking your in love?
there is a huge difference in being in love and thinking you’re in love. and if you truly love someone and they love you back (not the abusive, addiction obsessed, cheating losers out there that “love” you) sex is wonderful
Yeah, the always say they’re not gay, duh
well dear, i think you’re very much in denial. you ask this question, but you don’t want the answer. You can’t shoot down every possible option. Gay, cheated, not interested. Maybe all three. He’s not interested because he’s gay and cheated on you with a guy and picked something up. It’s not like there have never been gay athletes. As a matter of fact there have been a lot.
Or maybe you just need to me more creative in bed. Spice it up a little.
for the last time, he’s not gay..he’s still and always interested in me…i see it and i feel it all the time…we’re even back to being sexually active especially after he ate this #1 aphrodisiac…all is well now..
So, he needed an aphrodisiac? Hmmmm, And being an athlete means nothing. Don’t you know that sports/competition has it roots in homosexuality? Look at the Greeks and Romans. Good Luck, Sister
yes..all it takes is an aphrodisiac…and so if he’s an athlete?why???is what you’re saying really applicable to ALL athletes????
I am glad your boyfriend and you are doing better maybe he was just depressed?? sometimes people dont do the things they were once interested because they are or were depressed for a little while. But it could be any number of reasons for why. So whatever you do if he doesnt want to next time ask him why and don’t blame yourself esp.
thanks:)i’ll take note of that..
Dont be ignorant, he has someone else
i dont think he has someone else…he’s always been honest..we’re always honest with each other that’s why we’re lasting thins very long..and if he has someone else i’d know it for sure..i have so many friends watching over him…well, that’s because the whole gang’s very supportive to us..
I hope you work things out then, sometimes you just go through a rough patch
Ignore most of the ignorant posters on here.
Guys go through up and down cycles from time to time. It could be job stress, diet (lack of potassium and zinc for example), a touch of depression, concerns over money, feeling unworthy for whatever reason, feeling like you don’t enjoy it, a new baby or other disruption at home.
I’m glad you talked to him about it. That is the mature and reasonable thing to do and I’m proud of you both :)
thanks for that…i’ll always remember it..well, we don’t have any problems in talking and discussing things with each other because that’s what we do always..we talk thing out..maybe it’s because we are so open with each other that’s why we can talk easily..:)
yessssssssss whoever you are he is cheating so keep it moving
how can u know he’s cheating if u dont even know him…and i know he’s not cheating coz he’s not that kind of guy…
Did any of you think that maybe he has herpes, aids or somthing else and he is protecting you.
Move on …………
no..he’s a hundred percent clean…and besides, he’d only have sex with me and only me…moreover, we already fixed it up and we’re on good terms in our relationship..
A chick gets a headache and its all fine and dandy, a guy says no and its he is gay, has GRIDS or is cheating. maybe the dude is just tired as hell maybe he has a health issue. It seems no one else is willing to ask it, so I will because you are “Anonymous” what was the issue he gave you?