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I am a girl and I am a sex addict. I told my lover who is also my husband. He told me sex isnt important in a relationship therefore he wont have sex with me when I want to. I thought guys were more into sex then girls but in his case, he is more of the female in the relationship. He told me that he wants me to know he appreciate me for me and not for my body and I appreciate that but I am getting tired of begging him for sex. Oh yeah, he rather watch porn then have sex.. isnt that like cheating?
Anonymous on October 5th 2007 in Sex
Futurist said on 07 Oct 2007 at 2:28 am # Quote
Your husband has as much of a problem as you do. Insist you and he see a marriage counsellor as soon as possible!
Brandon said on 07 Oct 2007 at 5:16 pm # Quote
yeah its like cheating in some way, but futurist has a good point.
su said on 07 Oct 2007 at 8:18 pm # Quote
seems ur husband find it not interesting enough with you as he is watching porno..make it interesting to him
j said on 11 Oct 2007 at 10:06 pm # Quote
it is not cheating.. maybe your husband is not yet emotionally ready in engaging to it.. make your move..
Ross said on 16 Oct 2007 at 4:23 pm # Quote
Your husband might have problem with you..an ill feeling that prevent his desire to make love with you. Probably you did something that he felt sorry, angry, etc. Or perhaps, he is adoring and longing to have other woman already. Or perhaps he is sick and cannot tell you that he cannot function well to satisfy your needs. Try to discover what is behind in all of these reasons.
dakoojd said on 20 Oct 2007 at 1:30 am # Quote
i think dear u caugth up in wrong hand a great saying in india “phas gayi razia gundao mein” its for ur hubby
katie said on 23 Oct 2007 at 8:19 pm # Quote
my husband watches porn cause it calms him down. He still loves me. so if you think he dont love me no more..
Larry said on 08 Nov 2007 at 5:14 pm # Quote
“Oh yeah, he rather watch porn then have sex.”
LOL
Larry said on 08 Nov 2007 at 5:16 pm # Quote
Damn! I wish you married me, not him
:-)
GG said on 09 Nov 2007 at 11:05 pm # Quote
Perhaps you can watch porn with him and see what happens!! ;) It could be fun!!
Chris said on 18 Nov 2007 at 11:43 am # Quote
Wow… I think 90% of the north americans have all been theire even for a brief moment. It’s sobering and hard to admit and even impulsive and innocence cause it’s done all alone. But it’s cheating, more importantly yourself, of the energy and excitement you could otherwise give your spouse. Yes therapy or counselling is good. But why not try talking together go out on a date and talk about it lightly first he may have similar reservations about something similar that you might not have considered. Why, not he is your love..luckily lady!
MasterMax said on 29 Nov 2007 at 8:06 am # Quote
Your hubby may be he knows some lady who dry him before let him go home.
wit my best wishes to you
Maria said on 08 Dec 2007 at 3:20 pm # Quote
Hum.. your hubby is a nice person with soft feeling.
It’s better to think this way:
Your hubby is a lucky person who does have sex-addicted-wife (=it’s a compliment). But the case: he is more of the female in the relationship. Maybe, so do his sexual need. Not as big as you, I guess. Or he think that he’s not enough for you.
If man and woman in relationship aren’t equal, haha.. this will bring a lot of trouble, such as: disatisfaction.
So, he train you to be patient and become less adictive, by avoiding having sex with you. At the same time, he watch porn to train himself to be more addictive to sex.
He just want the best for you. That’s all.
KEEP THE POSITIVE MIND!
Note: Have you try this? Tease him, without urging to have sex. Stop at the right moment, and do anything else (ex: cooking, taking a bath, etc). Do this not so often, but frequently. If he ask, tell him: you miss him or you love him, and that touch speaks more than words. Don’t ask him for sex, don’t beg, don’t do. If he ask, tell him: sex is between 2 person and you just want to have it if he’s ready.
And tell me if he still doesn’t want to have sex with you.
Maria said on 08 Dec 2007 at 3:23 pm # Quote
Maria said:
*If he ask about this unusual behavior..
Someone said on 23 Feb 2008 at 10:35 pm # Quote
aren’t you even glad that your husband won’t have sex with you unless you want to?? i mean, i have heard issues now about marital rape. their wives don’t want sex but their husbands insists on having sex because of the urge!
mike said on 02 Apr 2008 at 2:58 am # Quote
i have the same problem, i love to have sex but my wife doesn’t. maybe we should get together
reverser said on 06 May 2008 at 11:29 am # Quote
lol.. mike where the hell you came up with such a stupid joke. made me laugh. lol
by the way: You got a bad husband, who is watching filthy stuff even after he had a wonderful wife who just wants him in her arms all the time!
cupid said on 17 Jun 2008 at 4:11 am # Quote
u’re not a sex addict, its natural for married couples to hv sex everyday… N with him pushing u away all the time
i don even wanna think of wat will cross ur mind time after time
its not about counseling or begging 4 sex
its jus sumting wrong with him
the first thing tat came into my mind was
“isn’t marriage suppose 2 be sharing beautiful moments together, N being comfortable with ur partner?”
so wats making him so uncomfortable till he needs 2 watch porn?
N y did he marry u anyway?
u could ask him that in a nicer way than how i put it.. Lol
Black Goat said on 07 Jul 2008 at 4:38 pm # Quote
That man does not deserve you, I am a hot blooded heterosexual and wouldn’t mind having sex 4 times a day.
V said on 09 Jul 2008 at 1:01 am # Quote
Maybe you should make some porn for him to watch!