secret lesbian thoughts

i am a straight married 35 yo woman, but ever since i was in high school, i’ve been attracted to women. i don’t want a romantic relationship – just sex. i love watching lesbian porn when my husband is out of the house. no one knows about my lesbian urges. i want to find a woman to have sex with so badly.

21 Responses to “ “secret lesbian thoughts”

  1. Been There Before says:

    Well, if you weren’t married I’d advise you to do what makes you happy. But since you are, it’s just a thought, don’t ruin your marriage over a thought. It’s hard to think of it that way but its the plain and honest answer.
    Happy New Year by the way!!! ^_^

  2. Be wise says:

    How would you react if your husband wanted a bisexual affair?

  3. j says:

    This is every guys dream! I think you should talk to your husband about your urges. I think he might end up supporting you. :)

  4. Anonymous says:

    I feel the same way ever since I was in high school I’ve always wanted to experience having sex with a woman no relationship just sex! I say go for it

  5. Someone says:

    Be honest with your husband..

  6. Anonymous says:

    I’ve thought about it too. I’ve talked to my husband about it and he has given me the go ahead. Maybe you should do the same.

  7. 20yr old says:

    Ever since I was in 6th grade I have been sexually attracted to women…. I am now twenty in a 6yr relationship with my wonderful soon to be husband.. but always in my back of my mind.. I want a girl so badly…. I know my fiance would freak out if i told him. before we got together I had a little thing for a friend so we would make out and touch each other but we never got naked or anything.. or had oral sex or anything.. maybe I am bi.. but I have never cheated on my boyfriend..

  8. helpful teen says:

    you better talk to your husband and me honest…doing that would make him happier and who knows..you mite end up doing it :)

  9. me too... says:

    I’m 22. And Well at the moment I’m in love with this guy to the point where it actually hurts, but about a year ago I started watching the L Word and I didn’t believe at first, but I’m more turned on by the sex scenes in that show than I would be in any hetero porn. So every now and then I’ll have an urge to have sex with a woman because that show has made it look so unbelievably fulfilling. I’m curious. I hate labels though. they’re so confining. i wouldn’t classify myself as bi or gay. just curious. i hope thats normal.

  10. K says:

    I have the same problem. I’m only 18, but I love lesbian porn, and I just want sex with a girl. I don’t want a relationship. Sometimes I browse the internet looking for someone close to me. I can’t help this urge, and I wish I could act on it.

  11. marie says:

    I just turned 40 and finally got what I wanted, to have sex with a woman.. and my boyfriend loves it.. and loves me. We have rules, he’s not allowed to ***K her everything but… he loves watching us,. we’re normal woman, with normal bodies and we all get what we want! ; )
    you just have to talk…. TALKING is important!

  12. same boat says:

    i couldve wrote that secret myself, only diffrence is, its your name at the bottom!

  13. jill says:

    Female, 31 from kent… I want to take all you women here and get you in my baby oil filled paddling pool for the night !!!!

    • Susy says:

      I’ve had the same thoughts for years. The thought of being with a woman excites me. Having a woman touch me, please me. Jill, sign me up! ;)

  14. Kate says:

    I urge you to tell your partner about how you feel! I am strongly bisexual and felt comfortable enough to divulge this to my boyfriend. He was very supportive and we decided to try threesome sex as a means of explorIng my sexuality. I accept this isn’t suitable for all couples, but for us it has been a very positive experience. I was able to explore my fascination with sex with women and he could share in this.

  15. louise says:

    I had the same feelings from being a teenager, I finally had sex with a woman at 40, and it felt so right ! I havent been with a woman for about a year now, and I miss it so much, if it feels right then do it, you wont regret it :)

  16. Anonymous says:

    This “confession” sounds like another one-handed typing job from a man indulging in some online fantasies. I’m sure there are women going through this, but…10 times more likely this is not for real.

  17. Sarasota says:

    I had felt this way my whole life and I never acted on it. I went through a long, miserable marriage to a man’ Finally at forty, I came out and I have never been happier or more fulfilled! I never felt truly feminine until my first time with a woman. It’s been an incredible experience that I wouldn’t trade for anything!

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