secret lesbian thoughts

i am a straight married 35 yo woman, but ever since i was in high school, i’ve been attracted to women. i don’t want a romantic relationship – just sex. i love watching lesbian porn when my husband is out of the house. no one knows about my lesbian urges. i want to find a woman to have sex with so badly.

23 thoughts on “secret lesbian thoughts

  1. Well, if you weren’t married I’d advise you to do what makes you happy. But since you are, it’s just a thought, don’t ruin your marriage over a thought. It’s hard to think of it that way but its the plain and honest answer.
    Happy New Year by the way!!! ^_^

  2. This is every guys dream! I think you should talk to your husband about your urges. I think he might end up supporting you. :)

  3. I feel the same way ever since I was in high school I’ve always wanted to experience having sex with a woman no relationship just sex! I say go for it

  4. I’ve thought about it too. I’ve talked to my husband about it and he has given me the go ahead. Maybe you should do the same.

  5. Ever since I was in 6th grade I have been sexually attracted to women…. I am now twenty in a 6yr relationship with my wonderful soon to be husband.. but always in my back of my mind.. I want a girl so badly…. I know my fiance would freak out if i told him. before we got together I had a little thing for a friend so we would make out and touch each other but we never got naked or anything.. or had oral sex or anything.. maybe I am bi.. but I have never cheated on my boyfriend..

  6. you better talk to your husband and me honest…doing that would make him happier and who mite end up doing it :)

  7. I’m 22. And Well at the moment I’m in love with this guy to the point where it actually hurts, but about a year ago I started watching the L Word and I didn’t believe at first, but I’m more turned on by the sex scenes in that show than I would be in any hetero porn. So every now and then I’ll have an urge to have sex with a woman because that show has made it look so unbelievably fulfilling. I’m curious. I hate labels though. they’re so confining. i wouldn’t classify myself as bi or gay. just curious. i hope thats normal.

  8. I have the same problem. I’m only 18, but I love lesbian porn, and I just want sex with a girl. I don’t want a relationship. Sometimes I browse the internet looking for someone close to me. I can’t help this urge, and I wish I could act on it.

  9. I just turned 40 and finally got what I wanted, to have sex with a woman.. and my boyfriend loves it.. and loves me. We have rules, he’s not allowed to ***K her everything but… he loves watching us,. we’re normal woman, with normal bodies and we all get what we want! ; )
    you just have to talk…. TALKING is important!

    1. I’ve had the same thoughts for years. The thought of being with a woman excites me. Having a woman touch me, please me. Jill, sign me up! ;)

      1. Omg i feel the same way. I’m happy with my bf,and normally. I’m not turn on by any girl or such. But i’d like to have lesbian experience,since i saw the lesbian porn. I’m glad i’m not the only one.

  10. I urge you to tell your partner about how you feel! I am strongly bisexual and felt comfortable enough to divulge this to my boyfriend. He was very supportive and we decided to try threesome sex as a means of explorIng my sexuality. I accept this isn’t suitable for all couples, but for us it has been a very positive experience. I was able to explore my fascination with sex with women and he could share in this.

  11. I had the same feelings from being a teenager, I finally had sex with a woman at 40, and it felt so right ! I havent been with a woman for about a year now, and I miss it so much, if it feels right then do it, you wont regret it :)

  12. This “confession” sounds like another one-handed typing job from a man indulging in some online fantasies. I’m sure there are women going through this, but…10 times more likely this is not for real.

  13. I had felt this way my whole life and I never acted on it. I went through a long, miserable marriage to a man’ Finally at forty, I came out and I have never been happier or more fulfilled! I never felt truly feminine until my first time with a woman. It’s been an incredible experience that I wouldn’t trade for anything!

  14. but why is it other woman doesn’t like to love a lesbian. they don’t even like to be link to us. they always say that it is yuck to be in a relationship with the same sex. and in our part it hurts so much! :(

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