I have been cheating on my wife (prev. partner) for over 10 years – (we have been married for 8)with multiple women. some were short term (one night to a few meetings) and some were long term – up to 5 years being the longest.
i travel the country with my job, and find excitement in sleeping with a different women wherever i go.
we have children together, and i still love my wife, but she doesnt give me the same sexual thrill that sleeping with random women does.
For her sake, if you love your wife at all, GET AN AIDS TEST! its one thing if you like to screw around wantonly, another thing altogether if you are putting your wife at risk. MAN UP AND GET YOURSELF teSted!
I see nothing wrong with you you doing this if your wife is ok with it. Tell her you need this and that it doesn’t change your love for her. If she’s open minded and you’re ok with her sleeping with other men, then all good.
I think ur sick, leave here and let her find a decent man, not one with his brains and feelings in his trouser snake!
Look, you obviously know what you’re doing. But you need to be prepared for divorce. She will find out someday because you do something stupid like leave a number somewhere.
When she does, she’ll leave you and take your kids and you’ll pay alimony and child support and get two weekends a month with your kids and as you grow old, the sex will become less frequent. Then what?
Rodger, I completely understand. I do almost exactly the same thing except my relationships are not ongoing. I’m married to a great guy; we have a wonderful family, but I cheat. My job requires that I travel a few times a year and I almost always end up having anonymous sex with someone when I’m away. I’m careful, I always use protection. I know I shouldn’t do it but I can’t seem to stop. It’s such a thrill to have sex with someone that I’ve just met and that I will probably never see again.