Preference
Posted by Her Hands to Her in Sex on Sep 12th, 2010 | 6 commentsWe’ve been married almost five years now, and we both are in our late 20′s. I don’t know why but for some reason I prefer her hands to sex with her. I know its totally unfair to her. I’m not gay nor am I bisexual. It’s just the way I am, and have always been. No expert help, helps at all.
Will I eventually loose her?
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Seems to me if she’s doing this all the time she already has another lover on the side you don’t know about. What do you expect of her anyway?
I think you already have lost her but you don’t know it yet. What woman would want to spend the rest of her sexual life with a guy who only wants to be masturbated.
Let her go and do it yourself.
This is not an unusual problem. My guess is you regularily masturbate and just can’t get as hard because she doesn’t have as tight a feel (I’m a woman and have had this problem with hubby). Lay off the masturbation….seriously. It will likely take less “friction” to get you off.
I agree with Robert, I hope your wife leaves you and soon. You’re a user. I left someone who had similar issues to this recently and I believe he’s in the closet
You’re lucky she doesn’t masturbate you until you’re ruined completely, which seems to be the way you are now.
Or maybe she did so she can fool around on the side and still be married to you.
Sounds like you are hopeless.
It would seem to me you got married knowing you had this preference, and had engaged in it for many years. You knew if you had told your wife to be what your problem was, she would have certainly not married you.
You should ask her if she wishes to be freed from this kind of marriage, and if so, you should be man enough to allow her to have a life of her own, away from you and your unfortunate preference.
You have to do some real soul searching, for it seems to me you are a closet gay, for no normal heterosexual male would prefer what, you, prefer. Face up to what you are and enter that world, and leave normal women to their own world. Which means your present wife.