Oppressed exhibitionist
Posted by Cindy in Sex on Jul 24th, 2010 | 10 commentsMy husband doesn’t know I’m an exhibitionist. He’s very conservative, and we are very active in our church, and always dress modestly. But, when I’m away from home on business, I find ways to show much more skin than he would approve of. I sometimes leave my hotel room curtains “accidentally” open a little, or I find ways to “accidentally” flash myself when wearing a skirt… I have even visited an out of town nude beach before. He has no idea that I love the looks this gets me. He would flip out if he knew how many people have seen me. He doesn’t even like me to wear a bikini in public, always a one-piece.
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You’re bored, IMO opinion find some way to express yourself.. Pose and be a nude model for a bunch of art student.. Something fun and safe. I have to say, I feel kind of sorry for you. I was married for 16 years and couldn’t be the person I wanted to be either.. Now, I’m separated and both me and my kids are much happier, life is too short to try to live up to someone else’s standards Couldn’t you at least try and be freaky and an exhibitionist in the bedroom and he could take pictures of you? Try exploring this side of you a little bit & let us know.. Good luck
why are you with him if you feel oppressed around him. i dont want to tell you what you should do since i am not married but i think you should feel free to be yourself around your significant other.
So I am not alone on the boat.
In fact, I am also different when I am away from my wife, but only upto a limit.
And now, I am trying to make my wife more interesting by talking with her ways of romancing, what are my likes & dislikes etc.
Please don’t ever think of leaving your husband. Thank lord, that you have a nice husband.
All the best!
By the way, why don’t you try arousing your husband & exhibiting youself to him?
truth: I’m afraid I can’t give any advice on this without knowing how deep this one goes, I think maybe tons and tons of pics would help me understand the problem more lmao /hugs.
Oppressed sounds like it. It makes sense that you have this “other side” when you are away… totally normal.
Relationships are interesting. It seems as if no person in a relationship is fully able to take thier partner “as they are,” without inserting themselves (beliefs, fears, desires). This is (in my opinion) just how it is.
Nudity is so lovley, it is great that you are exploring it. Now how in the world could you find a way to get your husband interested? There isn’t a way? (I don’t know). Whatever you do…. don’t feel ashamed.
In my own experience, I’ve spent a small bit of time naked with others, in saunas, swimming, hot springs. There is something liberating about shedding all things material and having just myself.. My experience was very non-sexual, just.. natural. It was through these experiences that I was able to heal from years of eating disorders and self-loathing. Nudity can be healing for all sorts of things.
I can concur with you. I am married to a conservative woman and we are church goers as well. Yet I like to be naked. I try to go to a nude beach every now and then. Life is short. Enjoy life as you can I am trying to do that. Hope you can follow your heart in living.
Deep deep down many weman disire to expose themselves.
In many cases it is the husband that wants the wife to be more open about what she wears
I can actually say I feel the same way here.
i feel the same way… very excited when exposing myself….kinda addicted to it…i don’t get the same excitement from anything else…i crave it……
I also love the thrill of exposing myself to random males. My husband isn’t against the idea either, but I don’t think he realizes just how much it turns me on. We have tons and tons of nude photos of me, and I secretely have shared them with random men online…my hubby does not know. It turns me on to know that they view me naked every day when they get home from work while there wife is cooking dinner! Most of these men are probably at least 40 if not 50 or 60…while I am just 25.