not sure if im a lesbian
Posted by Anonymous in Sex on Jun 1st, 2009 | 14 commentsim 20 years old and ive been with guys but ive always been sexually attracted to girls. ive kissed girls (what young girl hasnt these days lol) but never done anything else. im not sure if i actually am gay/bi but want to find out.
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if you were always attracted, your halfway lesbian. now try to find out, if you can have sexual joy with women and you can be 100% sure about it!
to be a lesbian or a bisexual you would have to be attracted to girls physically and emotionally as well. just bcuz you think a girl is hot does not make you a lesbian. can you picture yourself ever being with another girl? as in dating or living together, the way you would see yourself with a guy? do you think you can fall in love with another girl and be with her forever?
You’re more than welcome at our house. You can sample my wife and me. Then, you can compare the results. Or, simply enjoy both of us and swing both ways.
One common misconception about all sexual orientations is that when you are bi, you fancy guys and girls equally, or that when you are gay, you fancy everyone of the same gender. Everyone has varying amounts of attraction to each gender so in the end just go with trying out a relationship with the person that interests you and understands that it may not work out, instead of focusing on the gender.
Yeah, you def. sound bisexual to me. I would recommend you try something out with a friend who is bi or gay, someone you are attracted to and feel you can trust.
[quote comment="3681"]to be a lesbian or a bisexual you would have to be attracted to girls physically and emotionally as well. just bcuz you think a girl is hot does not make you a lesbian. can you picture yourself ever being with another girl? as in dating or living together, the way you would see yourself with a guy? do you think you can fall in love with another girl and be with her forever?[/quote]
ive been thinkin d same thing n questioning ma orientation bt dis reply is reaLly gud n thoughtful…and nw that i thought abt it, its definitely only dt sexual or physical attraction i have towardz galz…emotionally only as a frend. i can neva think of livin in or spendin a life wid a gal!!! That scares me to death, d very thot of it! So I guess Im nt a bi :)
AnOnYmOuSs, would you please start reading some literature because you can move forward writing like that.
im 15 and bisexual =]
there is nothing wrong with loving both dudess and chicks
[[even though i like girls more,chicks befor dicks lol]]
Lmao! I gotta agree with that.
I am also Bisexual and I like girls WAY more than guys.
i feelo the same way i like gurls and even had sex with a few but i dont know about spending my whole life with a gurl, but of course i’m only 13 i cant picture myself spending my whole life with anybody.
I’m confused too! I do have fantasies about being with a woman but I’m happily married to a man. He doesn’t want to bring a woman into our bed, so I guess I have to try it on my own. I just get turned on with the thought of me being with a woman while my man watch! Once, I actually asked a married man to bring me home to his home for a threesome and he turned me down. So I’m not sure if I can even live out my fantansy.
visit a swingers club
You are probably Bisexual. IF you are attracted to both men and women, you are. Just because you haven’t done anything with women yet doesn’t mean you aren’t.
And there is nothing wrong with going both ways or just going one way =)
I have dealt with this in my life too and when I asked myself the question of who I would prefer a LTR with, women won hands down. That’s when I came out, after a 16 year long unhappy marriage