You should probably take a closer look as to what it is that you find so appealling about this 16yr child and get help. Block her from your myspace. It is best to avoid the tempations all together as it could only lead to a bad outcome if anyone finds out.
I’m guessing that if she’s your girlfriend’s niece then you’re too old to be thinking about a young girl this way.
If that’s the case I suggest you seek counselling. Men with compulsive feelings like this often end up acting on them and I know you know it would be wrong or you wouldn’t be posting here.
First don’t think about her when you’re masturbating or having sex. Try as hard as possible to remove her from your sexual fantasies.
Then go seek a counsellor or a psychiatrist to help you work through this. They won’t judge you and they may help you find out the reasons why you feel this way. Recently there has been a lot of success in helping men to get over these inappropriate feelings about young girls.
Whatever happens do not act on your feelings.
I think you should tell your girlfriend as well. It will be hard but it’s the right thing to do. You shouldn’t be with someone while you sort out these impulses with your counsellor.
Get professional help. Please. Before it’s too late and you’re feeling guitly for more than just the thoughts in your head.
This must be awful for you, at least it means you should end the relationship with your girlfriend? She can’t be the right one? I’d suggest looking for something to replace this obsession? A new fantasy ? or a new girlfriend? In reality this can only end badly, you need to admit this to yourself! People do fall for someone else when in a relationship sometimes. But do yourself a favour block the photo’s. Go and find someone more appropriate? Or sort things out with your partner.. you should be able to ignore this distraction if its meant to be.
Don’t listen to everyone else. It’s very, very natural to find your average sixteen year old girl physically attractive. Has been through all of history. Only now laws make it illegal. That aside, you can look, scientific evidence says it’s natural. But you shouldn’t act on it and if you can’t control yourself you might have to break it off with your girlfriend to remove the temptation.
how old are? I hope you’re not a grown man lusting after a child….
You should probably take a closer look as to what it is that you find so appealling about this 16yr child and get help. Block her from your myspace. It is best to avoid the tempations all together as it could only lead to a bad outcome if anyone finds out.
Go for it! Depending on where you live the age of consent might BE 16!
I’m guessing that if she’s your girlfriend’s niece then you’re too old to be thinking about a young girl this way.
If that’s the case I suggest you seek counselling. Men with compulsive feelings like this often end up acting on them and I know you know it would be wrong or you wouldn’t be posting here.
First don’t think about her when you’re masturbating or having sex. Try as hard as possible to remove her from your sexual fantasies.
Then go seek a counsellor or a psychiatrist to help you work through this. They won’t judge you and they may help you find out the reasons why you feel this way. Recently there has been a lot of success in helping men to get over these inappropriate feelings about young girls.
Whatever happens do not act on your feelings.
I think you should tell your girlfriend as well. It will be hard but it’s the right thing to do. You shouldn’t be with someone while you sort out these impulses with your counsellor.
Get professional help. Please. Before it’s too late and you’re feeling guitly for more than just the thoughts in your head.
This must be awful for you, at least it means you should end the relationship with your girlfriend? She can’t be the right one? I’d suggest looking for something to replace this obsession? A new fantasy ? or a new girlfriend? In reality this can only end badly, you need to admit this to yourself! People do fall for someone else when in a relationship sometimes. But do yourself a favour block the photo’s. Go and find someone more appropriate? Or sort things out with your partner.. you should be able to ignore this distraction if its meant to be.
Don’t listen to everyone else. It’s very, very natural to find your average sixteen year old girl physically attractive. Has been through all of history. Only now laws make it illegal. That aside, you can look, scientific evidence says it’s natural. But you shouldn’t act on it and if you can’t control yourself you might have to break it off with your girlfriend to remove the temptation.