My fiancee and I have plans to spend 3 days in a rustic B&B in the middle of nowhere with one of her female friends and that friend’s boyfriend. A foursome. Except that my GF has no idea that her friend and I have hooked up a couple of times just to ****. This woman and I have no interest in a relationship, I love my fiancee, and really for both of us it was just about having sex with someone different.
Sometimes I think I should feel guilty about this, but I don’t. And I have every expectation that her friend and I will likely hook up again.
You will never be happy or content in your marriage if you cheat on your fiance/soon to be wife. There will always be a part of you that knows you are a failure because a real man does not cheat. You will never experience the love and connection that god intended for you have to have as a husband with your wife. You will miss out on one of god’s blessings. I feel sad for you. You need to confess and ask her and God for forgiveness.
If you plan to have random sex, then be single for f*cks sake! It’s not that hard, why hurt someone unneccesarily ? Be single and do whatever the f*ck you want.
Pls do everyone a favor n just break up with her. She deserves better.
the first commenter was right – you’ll always remember what a creep you were and this will make you feel like shit. you are immature now but one day–when you finally grow up–this crap you’ve done is going to inflict pain on your soul. grow the hell up.
my boyfriend cheated on me behind my back with a close friend and the damage it has done to my self esteem has been irreversible. that was a year ago and i still haven’t gotten over it. it’s all i think about and it makes me cry every single day. i can’t look in a mirror without thinking i’m disgusting and i can’t even masturbate anymore without getting disgusting and having to stop at least 3/4 times.