Comments on: Incest & Rape http://www.secret-confessions.com/sex/incest-rape Confess your deepest, darkest secret Sun, 15 Jan 2012 05:12:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Osiris http://www.secret-confessions.com/sex/incest-rape/comment-page-1#comment-13797 Osiris Sat, 05 Mar 2011 12:01:49 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=3359#comment-13797 Never let him get away with this, do the right way. Get some help on the authority. You can forgive him anytime you want, but justice must be served. Don't be scared. Never let him get away with this, do the right way. Get some help on the authority. You can forgive him anytime you want, but justice must be served. Don’t be scared.

]]> By: Mask http://www.secret-confessions.com/sex/incest-rape/comment-page-1#comment-9598 Mask Mon, 20 Sep 2010 09:01:21 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=3359#comment-9598 He hasn't changed. They NEVER change. Call the police. Does your mom know? Don't let him get away with this. He hasn’t changed. They NEVER change. Call the police. Does your mom know? Don’t let him get away with this.

]]> By: dreamer123 http://www.secret-confessions.com/sex/incest-rape/comment-page-1#comment-7019 dreamer123 Sat, 05 Jun 2010 03:32:48 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=3359#comment-7019 rape is somthin you dont want its not your fault at all !! if i were raped i would possibly think what you are thinking but is twice as hard on girls like myself and if you like males well its your life not anyone elses and for you to tell the public your personail life thts very brave but as you said he promices he is different he is not and will never be different always the same dumb bastered ! one of my friends has been raped a few times and when she told on him he got off with parrol if she had told sooner he might of been sittin in prison soo ser do wht you think is right in your mind no one elses. rape is somthin you dont want its not your fault at all !! if i were raped i would possibly think what you are thinking but is twice as hard on girls like myself and if you like males well its your life not anyone elses and for you to tell the public your personail life thts very brave but as you said he promices he is different he is not and will never be different always the same dumb bastered ! one of my friends has been raped a few times and when she told on him he got off with parrol if she had told sooner he might of been sittin in prison soo ser do wht you think is right in your mind no one elses.

]]> By: Bevvy http://www.secret-confessions.com/sex/incest-rape/comment-page-1#comment-4750 Bevvy Sat, 05 Dec 2009 03:36:00 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=3359#comment-4750 Firstly huey you are a sick sick b******!!! Enough said. Scared and confused, it is fantasic to hear you are taking your life back. You sound like you do have supportive people like your godfather and boyfriend. I am very humbled that you want to forgive your father but never forget...to quote a very famous writer, he has lost his right to play in our playground. He does not belong in society and when he contests the emancipation order please make sure that the proper authorities know this. Do not lose your independence for the sake of his freedom. Good luck in the future Firstly huey you are a sick sick b******!!!

Enough said.
Scared and confused, it is fantasic to hear you are taking your life back. You sound like you do have supportive people like your godfather and boyfriend.

I am very humbled that you want to forgive your father but never forget…to quote a very famous writer, he has lost his right to play in our playground. He does not belong in society and when he contests the emancipation order please make sure that the proper authorities know this. Do not lose your independence for the sake of his freedom.

Good luck in the future

]]> By: razzie http://www.secret-confessions.com/sex/incest-rape/comment-page-1#comment-4540 razzie Fri, 30 Oct 2009 10:53:19 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=3359#comment-4540 Wow.. you are an amazing person for wanting to reconcile things with your father after what he'd done to you, but I really don't think he deserves your kindness Wow.. you are an amazing person for wanting to reconcile things with your father after what he’d done to you, but I really don’t think he deserves your kindness

]]> By: XXX http://www.secret-confessions.com/sex/incest-rape/comment-page-1#comment-4536 XXX Thu, 29 Oct 2009 06:49:04 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=3359#comment-4536 Honestly, the guy has ver low self-esteem, so he picks on people. Forgive him... Stay out of the house... At least. Realize that true confidence comes from within... With or without anyone or anything, regardless of what your father says. Realize that we here are really no different than you. We have sexual fantasies and you're gay, so you have them about guys. I'm straight, so I have them about chicks whom I wod never sleep with. Realize that you are somebody, regardless what anyone says of you. My mom confessed to sexually abusing me. Most of us here have a loose end... I'll never put my name or organization on this thing. Most people have a loose end... In fact... It's my theory that all girls have a fantasy of being with their dads from 6 to 11 and honestly, reality might kick in and society might say "that's horrible" and I accept that, (they do to) but the fantasy and desire never ceases, even if you never participate in it... Then if you did, most feel guilty because they like it. Participate in society and realize that it is wrong in real life... recognize that most people go there in their minds and enjoy that place... Forgive him for doing what he did and be the bigger man for walking away from it in real life. Fantasy and real life are like the difference between a rubber snake and a real one. Focus on improving your own life, go to school, start a business, etc. I used to feel the same way, confused, in-between in my heart... But then I found that to fantasize is okay but the real thing is horrible. You felt loved when you were with him, and you miss that create that feeling in your heart and hang out with friends who can fill that void for you... People who want a righteous life, just like you. What if Im your favorite rockstar sending this message? I just might be. Love Honestly, the guy has ver low self-esteem, so he picks on people. Forgive him… Stay out of the house… At least. Realize that true confidence comes from
within… With or without anyone or anything, regardless of what your father says.

Realize that we here are really no different than you.

We have sexual fantasies and you’re gay, so you have them about guys.

I’m straight, so I have them about chicks whom I wod never sleep with.

Realize that you are somebody, regardless what anyone says of you.

My mom confessed to sexually abusing me.

Most of us here have a loose end… I’ll never put my name or organization on this thing.

Most people have a loose end… In fact… It’s my theory that all girls have a fantasy of being with their dads from 6 to 11 and honestly, reality might kick in and society might say “that’s horrible” and I accept that, (they do to) but the fantasy and desire never ceases, even if you never participate in it… Then if you did, most feel guilty because they like it.

Participate in society and realize that it is wrong in real life…
recognize that most people go there in their minds and enjoy that place…
Forgive him for doing what he did and be the bigger man for walking away from it in real life.

Fantasy and real life are like the difference between a rubber snake and a real one.

Focus on improving your own life, go to school, start a business, etc.

I used to feel the same way, confused, in-between in my heart… But then I found that to fantasize is okay but the real thing is horrible.

You felt loved when you were with him, and you miss that

create that feeling in your heart and hang out with friends who can fill that void for you… People who want a righteous life, just like you.

What if Im your favorite rockstar sending this message?

I just might be.

Love

]]> By: Scared and Confused http://www.secret-confessions.com/sex/incest-rape/comment-page-1#comment-4484 Scared and Confused Thu, 15 Oct 2009 07:31:24 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=3359#comment-4484 I just wanted to give an update about how my life is going for all the people who cared enough to comment. Things haven't been going very well at all. I found out that my mother knew almost from the beginning what was going on, and my father convinced her it was a one time thing and it would never happen again. Of course he lied, and she found out it had not stopped when I was twelve, my father told her that he would run off with me if she took me away from him, and he would leave her with no money. So we aren't really speaking all that much. I'm living with my godfather, who had no idea that this was going on. He found out that it was going on from my mother, who told him because she wanted him to take me in until my parents divorce goes through. I am trying to become emancipated, but my father is contesting it. I found a great boyfriend who has been very supportive, he is the first and only person I have told about this. He's stood by me every step of the way, and he is a real guiding light in my life, and all the supportive comments I have received from the caring people on this site have helped as well. After it was recommended that I see a therapist, I found a wonderful man to see and he is really helping me work through my problems. He also diagnosed me with Stockholm syndrome so I am also receiving help for that. I will not prosecute my father for what he did because I love him and I do not want to see him go to jail. If I am the only person he abused, and I really believe I am, I feel that it is no one else's problem but mine, and the police would bring far too much stress and attention for me and my family. As for him possibly harming others, honestly I could care less. That's their business not mine. I have a very limited capacity to care for others, my boyfriend, my friends, my godfather, my father, and my mother to a lesser extent are the only people I care for at all. I am also seeking legal advice, because of my desire to become emancipated, but for nothing else. I do not consider walking out on a seven year sexual relationship cold hearted because I feel now that I was too young to begin with, and I was manipulated into it. It would be cold hearted to walk out on my boyfriend, because we are sexually active. I love him so I feel no need to wait on sex with him. I know he loves me very much as well, so that is thankfully not an issue. I'm just trying to take my life one day at a time, and see my boyfriend as much as possible. Thank you again for all the comments and advice. It's nice to know that people out there can care about me, even though they don't know me. I hope to be able to get over this and move on with my life. When I feel I can trust my father again, if ever, I hope to reconcile with him. Thank you again, and I hope to read more help and advice from the caring, and not so caring people who post here. I just wanted to give an update about how my life is going for all the people who cared enough to comment. Things haven’t been going very well at all. I found out that my mother knew almost from the beginning what was going on, and my father convinced her it was a one time thing and it would never happen again. Of course he lied, and she found out it had not stopped when I was twelve, my father told her that he would run off with me if she took me away from him, and he would leave her with no money. So we aren’t really speaking all that much. I’m living with my godfather, who had no idea that this was going on. He found out that it was going on from my mother, who told him because she wanted him to take me in until my parents divorce goes through. I am trying to become emancipated, but my father is contesting it. I found a great boyfriend who has been very supportive, he is the first and only person I have told about this. He’s stood by me every step of the way, and he is a real guiding light in my life, and all the supportive comments I have received from the caring people on this site have helped as well. After it was recommended that I see a therapist, I found a wonderful man to see and he is really helping me work through my problems. He also diagnosed me with Stockholm syndrome so I am also receiving help for that. I will not prosecute my father for what he did because I love him and I do not want to see him go to jail. If I am the only person he abused, and I really believe I am, I feel that it is no one else’s problem but mine, and the police would bring far too much stress and attention for me and my family. As for him possibly harming others, honestly I could care less. That’s their business not mine. I have a very limited capacity to care for others, my boyfriend, my friends, my godfather, my father, and my mother to a lesser extent are the only people I care for at all. I am also seeking legal advice, because of my desire to become emancipated, but for nothing else. I do not consider walking out on a seven year sexual relationship cold hearted because I feel now that I was too young to begin with, and I was manipulated into it. It would be cold hearted to walk out on my boyfriend, because we are sexually active. I love him so I feel no need to wait on sex with him. I know he loves me very much as well, so that is thankfully not an issue. I’m just trying to take my life one day at a time, and see my boyfriend as much as possible. Thank you again for all the comments and advice. It’s nice to know that people out there can care about me, even though they don’t know me. I hope to be able to get over this and move on with my life. When I feel I can trust my father again, if ever, I hope to reconcile with him. Thank you again, and I hope to read more help and advice from the caring, and not so caring people who post here.

]]> By: huey http://www.secret-confessions.com/sex/incest-rape/comment-page-1#comment-4447 huey Mon, 05 Oct 2009 09:03:00 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=3359#comment-4447 you had a sexual relationship for 7 years then walked out without a word... Wow that's fucking cold-hearted. you had a sexual relationship for 7 years then walked out without a word… Wow that’s ******* cold-hearted.

]]> By: Javin http://www.secret-confessions.com/sex/incest-rape/comment-page-1#comment-4385 Javin Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:57:54 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=3359#comment-4385 There's every chance that your mother will be in complete denial. You will come out to look like a liar unless you're willing to go all the way. You can't half-ass this and tell a few people (even your mother) if you're not willing to prosecute. Personally, I believe you are definitely not the only one your father is molesting and raping. You should feel obligated to press charges, or you will be condoning his behavior, and the rapes of other children will be on your shoulders. Your father is a sick, twisted monster. You should not desire his "love" or even "friendship." He needs to be locked away in a cage like the animal that he is, or maybe even put down. Seek counseling, and seek legal advice. He needs to be stopped. There’s every chance that your mother will be in complete denial. You will come out to look like a liar unless you’re willing to go all the way. You can’t half-ass this and tell a few people (even your mother) if you’re not willing to prosecute.

Personally, I believe you are definitely not the only one your father is molesting and raping. You should feel obligated to press charges, or you will be condoning his behavior, and the rapes of other children will be on your shoulders.

Your father is a sick, twisted monster. You should not desire his “love” or even “friendship.” He needs to be locked away in a cage like the animal that he is, or maybe even put down.

Seek counseling, and seek legal advice. He needs to be stopped.

]]> By: Nicky http://www.secret-confessions.com/sex/incest-rape/comment-page-1#comment-4250 Nicky Fri, 04 Sep 2009 12:42:46 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=3359#comment-4250 I think your mother would know your father pretty well by now, and should have picked up on certain characteristics of the man she has been married to for so long. I think you should tell her and be prepared to move away if need be..Also it is perfectly natural to want and hope for love from your parents, because that is what they are supposed to do..right? From experience it is not you, it is them, and I know you will blame yourself for being unlovable. Fill yourselelf with love,, be true to yourself..and say no to secrets any more. :O) love is everything. I think your mother would know your father pretty well by now, and should have picked up on certain characteristics of the man she has been married to for so long. I think you should tell her and be prepared to move away if need be..Also it is perfectly natural to want and hope for love from your parents, because that is what they are supposed to do..right? From experience it is not you, it is them, and I know you will blame yourself for being unlovable. Fill yourselelf with love,, be true to yourself..and say no to secrets any more. :O) love is everything.

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