I don’t even know when it started. I am sixteen now and I sleep with random guys. Once I had two in just one night!I reall deeply love one guy, but he lives far away and does’t want distant relationship. When it first happened to me I felt like a slut. But now I don’t even feel sorry. I don’t feel anything to the guys, I don’t want to talk to them, I don’t even meet them after I sleep with them. I don’t know how to change myself because I cannot say no to something that makes me feel so great
i know its love and attention your looking for, unfortornly guys only give penis, not love.
hi,
i truly can understand your problem….
but try to change yourself i know its hard you can do it…
And you’re only 16? Are you prepared to emotionally go through the effects of catching STD’s? FYI – AIDS and Cervical Cancer kills, Herpes never goes away and Clamitia if undetected will destroy every female organ, ruining any chance of you ever having children one day when you finally do grow up. Get a damn vibrator and keep your legs shut……
you should be careful! the guys you slept it slept with other girls who probably slept with the rest of guys of who knows where! there are diseases around like Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD)…. for a 16 year old girl, you could find love and comfort not only through sex… you need to look somewhere else. how long have you been doing it? as early as possible, go and have a check-up. it’s for your sake.
WOW Lisa. When you say ‘guys only give penis’ I hope you mean the guys she obviously is looking for. We aren’t all like that, contrary to whatever somebody might have told you. Don’t generalize, please. Peace.
okay a way to fix this its the same way i helped my ex she had sex with random guys but i met her and fell in love now what i did wasnt the safest but it worked find someone who your damn sure they dont have any stds and make sure they care about you and just keep having sex with them that way you dont hav the pressures if infection and if your not on birth control be very careful not to get pregnant always use protection
i noe how u feel N wats going on in ur mind
its sumting millions of other girls face as well
as a guy, i use to have sumting similar to u, but in my case, i did not jus sleep with any girl, though it was lots of them
well i changed my whole perspective of being loved N loving sumone when the girl whom i truly loved most actually cheated on me… knowing how it feels to sumone else, u hv 2 also think not only of urself but others who actually care N love u for who u r N not wat u hv 2 give them for their pleasure sake
you have to take care of the STD,you will regret it if you caught an infection oneday !
It sounds to me like you need the stimulation that makes you feel good inside. It does not make you a **** or bad. It is just a nature that all people want to experiance but some just handle it in diferant ways.
you know i understand your situation, your at the stage of adolescence, normally your age is full of adventurism a typical teen ager. keep praying and always be with your friends.
You just to be careful instead of making your mind wondering around….guys jz do it for sexual sensation not showing true love and passion. pls mind that and make sure ur safe for now…dun try it again.
I’m only 14 and I’m the same way. I just can’t stop and it hurts my mom. Even though it hurts her, I’m the same way. I just want to have sex with the guys. That’s it nothing more. But I’ve found someone for me. Which i came on too strong to him. All I want is sex. I felt like a **** at first too, but now i really don’t care.
well u need a perfect soulmate who can controll u???????
control ur self
be mindful of others
be safe
ive been there and done that
im ok now. im only17
it took me a year to get over that
and im happy now ;)
no more sex with other people
u just need CONTROL