I cheated on my fiance
Posted by Anonymous in Sex on Mar 10th, 2010 | 9 commentsI cheated on my fiance. I don’t know why I did it. I love him and he loves me. He’s the best partner anybody could have. But I cheated on him with one of our friends. I had sex with his friend. I don’t know what to do. Should I tell him? If so how?
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You have to tell him. You won’t be able to live with it. The longer you wait the worse it will be for both of you.
If you explain that you were scared and messed up, he might be able to forgive you
but how?
Just tell him. If there’s no fear that he’ll turn violent do it in private. Just say “I have something to tell you. I feel terrible about this but I have to tell you. I slept with Steve (or whoever).”
There are NO words that will make this easier for him. Just give him the bare facts “I slept with Steve” and then leave it up to him to ask the questions. He will tell you how much he wants to know.
If he asks “why” you can tell him how scared you are, how messed up you feel, how frightened you are of getting married, how depressed you’ve been lately. Whatever the reason is tell him the TRUTH. If you don’t know…tell him that. And tell him you want to get couples counselling to sort out why you feel that way.
This could end your relationship but you have to do the right thing by telling the truth.
You cheated on him cause youre a jezebel. You will always cheat on whoever you are with. You have the morals of an allycat. The notion of cheap nsa sex appeals to you. You might as well go stand on a street corner and make it worth your while.
NEVER NEVER confess to your man. Just don’t do it again…with a friend. I cheat always on my day off during the week. I go to stores and proposition women. I love my wife but I want more and more. Addiction is just that.
You are a good person, just horny=hungry.
agree with Ronnie. just stop doing it. no need to disclose
Tell him. It matters.
If you don’t tell him, and he finds out later, he’ll never recover. NEVER.
If you tell him now, there’s a chance he’ll forgive you and get over it. This is the most important decision of his life – he deserves to have all the information required to make that decision. Right now… you’re the only one with all the information.
Take it from me on this one – if you start your marriage with a lie like this in the back of your mind, you’re going to cheat yourself, and him, out of an honest relationship. An honest relationship will grow and get better over time. A dishonest one will fester and eventually die. It’s that important.
i totally agree.. be responsible of your own action.. and learn to face the consequences of what you have done. goodluck.
You know why you did it.