I have only been caught by my ex girlfriend when her seven year old told. She broke it off but never reported me and still invites me to parties. I love children so much that I want to make them feel good, emotionally, physically and sexually too. People who say it is wrong need to look in the mirror and at their spouse because most men would sleep with children if they had the chance. I’ve just been more lucky then most and I won’t stop.
Just get it over with and kill yourself. No offense but the world is over populated and your probably overly emotional.
I think it’s wrong to molest children ! It’s a horrible thing to do. When
I was younger, my friend got raped and she died. And it’s a sick thing
To do that stuff to kids. To tell you the truth, I seriously think you should be in jail.
So you don’t want to stop at all?
Do you not fear what will happen to you if she tells anyone about this, now or later on?
To be a child molester in prison is possibly the most dangerous to yourself.
Child molesters, rapists and paedophiles all get the worst treatment in prison, and it would seem that you are all 3.
you deserve to die. you do not deserve to breathe the air of this earth.
you sick sick sick and sick u need help no u need to be shot. i have been raped and u r a sick bastard burn in hell
“I want to make them feel good, emotionally, physically and sexually:”
If this is what you really want to accomplish then you wouldn’t be molesting them. You are damaging them emotionally, and invading them physically and sexually.
You are narcissistic…you really aren’t thinking about children, you are thinking about yourself. What you have done is wrong and you know it.
Um my husband would NEVER sleep with a child. That’s disgusting. Quit trying to justify your actions with erroneous broad sweeping statements.
EXACTLY! stop trying to act like everyone does it because only mentally unstable people do! my husband would never ever do this either and the fact that you think it is normal shows that you need some serious help. how about you look on this website a little bit longer and read about a majority of these stories saying how they are emotionally damaged because of the sexual abuse they have encountered. do us all a favor and get some help.
There is one thing that needs to be done to men like you. ‘IT’ needs to be cut off. It is sad that you believe most men would harm a child in the lowest manner like that. Most men would not and at least know it is wrong. I bet if the roles were reversed you would plead “Please Stop” and “No”.
This is what should really happen to you to make you stop you sick, disgusting piece of immoral SH*&*
we’re only human, and we’re not perfect.
Yeah we are human therefore we understand right from wrong. EVERYONE BUT PEOPLE LIKE YOU UNDERSTAND THIS IS UTTERLY, INDESCRIBABLY WRONG!!
true . . . you’re not perfect, you’re sick and neefd to be in jail where pedophiles are treated justly by other inmates
Pedophiles like you make me ******* sick mentally. Reading it in criminology books about pedophile doing what they do. Just kills me what molesters do to children. See this is how I like at this. In a pedophiles eye’s they don’t look at this as a problem, they enjoy of preying on children; building the child’s trust and hurting them. Now the people who get sexual though in their head about children seek help and get medication because they would never hurt a child. Now the pedophiles look at molesting children with no problem and don’t look at this as a problem. I hope you get f in prison by a big black guy name Buba. Because you know what you will become the prey in prison bitch!!!
wtf is wrong with you? you need help! what u cant find someone your own age to have sex with or is it because no one will have sex with you? you deserve to die and the tortured the way you torture these children i wish i knew who you were so i could put you behind bars you piece of sh*t!
I was molested when I was 7 for over half a summer. That is what started my downward spiral. I’m not going to say the rest of my life has been perfect, because it’s so far from, but because of being hurt like that I’m a shit show. I’m depressed, have anxiety disorder, insomnia, I self harm, I starve myself, I talk to 2 different counselors, and I can’t do anything sexual without crying. Thanks.
I’m pretty sure this is a wind-up, but I’m reporting it to the police anyway. I really hope that you posted from your home computer.
I sure hope you reported this lunatic. What we need is vigilante justice.
amen. one less childhood ruined.
Do us all a favour and throw yourself off a building, or overdose, or drop a toaster in your bath. We aren’t fussed, just rid yourself from this planet. We don’t need people like you, you are a discrace to the human race.
And don’t you dare try to justify yourself by saying “most men would sleep with children”. I think we all know that is a complete lie.
What I don’t like is your last comment “I won’t stop!” Reading what you had to say, I understand there is a need or urge that everyone has. Like children is understandable because they are so cute and INNOCENT. But you as an ADULT know the consequence of your actions and children should NOT have to go through being TRAUMATIZED at such a young age because of you.
Indeed you are selfish BAST***. “I Won’t stop.” meaning that you have considered to avoid and all the yaddy yaddy yatta, but you have to come to conclusion that you will not sacrifice anything for your NEED and WANTS. You really need help, you are sick to the mind in a different ways.
It’s pedofiles like you that would say: “Most men would sleep with children if they had the chance” because clearly nobody will do that because they still have conscience and moral values.
If a person is not willing to reflect upon themselves of their actions and behaviors or try to understand themselves why they are doing such actions, then ultimately, they have this elusive thinking that what they are doing is not wrong. They become stubborn thinkers, what everyone says is wrong and it goes in one ear and out the other.
I was molested as a child….I was then bulemic for 18 years..and I am now scarred for life. My 38 year marriage suffers constantly from my childhood. I have been in therapy…for the bulemia…and am no longer…but I will forever be a hurt little girl. If I could find you I would shoot you myself!
You sick f—, the most painful and slow death is too good for you. My wish for you is that you suffer endlessly. I battle PTSD and anorexia thanks to one sick bastard like yourself. My life was robbed from me. I hope with all my heart that you die painfully. Hopefully today.
You have an extremely warped sense of reality if you think most men desire to sleep with children. You should hide your face in shame for harming children in any way – it is an unforgivable act, a disgusting indulgence that is entirely selfish and morally bankrupt. Stop acting on this and get help, there is a reason it’s illegal, the protection of children is priority number one.
I’ll never understand how a person can look at an innocent child and think of sick twisted sexual thoughts of them. That’s BEYOND twisted. My god, how can you even live with yourself HURTING AND DAMAGING these children you deranged bastard.
i molested my little sister when we were kids i hate my self for it but i stop all that stuff i have a gf now but im scared to tell her i was a molester oh and me little sister hates me she pretend like she doesn’t but she hates me and i deserve it plus more
There is no escape from the needs. I know you still fantasize
You are deranged to think children are being helped somehow by being sexual with you. Children grow into adults that hate you for this. Children hate you for this at the time you are molesting them but are too afraid and weak to stop it. Don’t fool yourself, you are committing one of the most evil acts known to mankind. It is entirely selfish for you to think your pleasure and satisfaction are “needs” and that they are more important than the rest of a person’s whole life. You use them. Time to get out of fantasy land, or you will find yourself behind bars, and good riddance if you do.
i’ve always wanted to get this off my chest. when i was fourteen i was briefly babysitting a young girl and her brother. she was 5 at the time. At around that time i had just discovered pornographic magazines. I became fazinated with the images of naked women in very explicit sexual situations. I do not know what came over me, but what i did on impulse is the following: I placed her onto the bed face down and dry humped her until I came. it was very quickly. Next time I was baby sitting them again, the little girl said that she had told her mother about it, and that her mother told her to tell me to not do it again. I felt so scared but the mother never confronted me or pressed any charges. I had no idea of the consequences that this shamefull incident would have on my life living with a shameful secret. Carrying this secret through my life made fell less of a person it made me have low self esteem all trough highscool and since i could not turn back time i felt a sense of desperation leading to bouts of depression, anxiety and panic attacks. I know for a fact that i’m not a pedophile I love children but in a healthy normal way. It was just that one moment of impulse when i was weak and ****** up. And now i have to live with it. I wish there was support groups for people like me that have regrets of something shameful that was done to a child. I am now 46 yr old and it still bothers me. Thanks for your time.
I honestly believe that you know you dont do that because you “love children so much you want to make them feel good”. You know you do it because it gets you off. Whatever youre doing does not make them feel good, it damages them for the rest of their life. You know the only thing you “love” about them is that they ate innocent and helpless and they cant stop you from doing that twisted **** to them. You are messed up and the scum of the earth.
I was raped when i was 13 walking on the railroad tracks back toward my house after playing with my friends at the park. The dude who did it too looked like he was 16-18 years old i never told a soul about it being a 13 year old boy i was way to scared to say anything and that was a mistake i could have died who knows if the molestor had aids or something. Because of him my life is a hell im been on drugs to relieve the pain ive even joined a gang and an occult and the reason i joined the occult was i felt partly it was gods fault and i turned to the devil to give me happiness and let me torture my rapist for eternity in hell. One day that will come.
hey dude dont kill yourself people r just bitches go to therepy it will help you look at porn or something
I hope you read this. I won’t insult you.
You said in your comment that you love children and you want to make them feel good physically and sexually, let me tell you that YOU WON’T make them feel good as you think because THEIR MIND AND BODY ARE NOT PREPARED FOR BEING INTIMALLY WITH SOMEONE!
They are kids! Their bodies are in development! Just let me asj you this, in case you become a father, Would you let a friend to have sex with your seven year old because he wants to make him feel good? Would you be ok with that? Thought so.
I really hope you make this questions to yourself and decide to stop. I am a mother and I would be devastated to the point of suicide if my baby become molested (God forbids)
I really hope you reconsider. Will be praying for all of you.
theres a special seat in hell waiting for you.
” People who say it is wrong need to look in the mirror and at their spouse because most men would sleep with children if they had the chance.”
Really? Because I wouldnt!!
Truth is – You are gratifying a desire in the wrong way. You can choose to do opposite from a desire you have. There is a healthy way to gratify desires. It never involves taking advantage of someone else. Denying yourself is the only way to satisfaction. Its ironic but true. You will never find what you seek on the wrong path.
Reasons not to molest children -
It affects them in such a dark horrible way that it takes a self controlled – “Adult mind” to see it. You ruin their senses before they develop. You ruin their ability to measure intimacy in people and therefore giving them insecurity for the rest of their lives.You ruin their self control before they learn to have it. You plant a fear in them they will have to deal with long before they are aware of what it is. Meaning they are defenseless against their own fear. Some never recover. You are tearing down the very core element of their person hood – Self preservation of one’s own identity. -Which you have no power to restore. Why then do you take it from them?
Who are you to affect a real person in such a way? To birth a lie in the dark that will destroy their ability to see light. It will take years of help and patient “loving” people to show them how to be normal in perceiving themselves and others.
This is truly a sick situation to place someone in.
The User-
You are still an inner child seeking to live out your life in the sexual gratification of children you molest yet blinding yourself to believe that it is Good for them and yourself. It isn’t. It is an evil that blinds its user.
Process of Resolution -
Find what it really means to make someone else “feel” good and you will see it takes “self sacrifice”. Not twisted indulgence stolen from a child. Even adult sex requires selfless giving to have great sex. Taking always kills the moment.
My plea to you for you and them -
You are harming them deeply.
Think of their future wives or husbands.
Think of you as a child.
Think of the last moment before you became totally self indulgent. What would you be like if you went the other way?
You are letting yourself go for someone to stop you when you have the ability to do that for yourself.
I hope it didn’t happen to you when you were a child. The more you mature and grow as a person – the more you will see how evil it is.
I am pleading with you – stop now before you ruin more lives that haven’t even begun yet.
My story -
The woman i care so deeply for was molested by her older brother. I can tell you first hand what that does to her and her husband – me. There is no resolve for the twisted feeling in my stomach. I forgive him. She forgives him. But he has taken a piece of my soul and hers and destroyed it. We can never get it back.
Damn the sin.
Jesus save the sinner.
After reading all of the replies, all I can say is, “Wow”! I think that some of the people who replied actually need help also. Okay . . . so this man is a sick man. I am assuming he is a man. Instead of condemning him and asking him to die, you should pray for him and ask that he be saved. God loves us all. God forgives us for our sins, and we are to forgive those who sin against us. If I knew this person, I would try to get him to counseling and try to help him.
please think about this okay you want to make them feel good emotionaly right, BUT this is not the way to do it. look good reason WRONG ACTION. Most kids who get molested usualy grow horrible lives. As a child my friend was raped and now he is scared of everyone i am the only one he trust and also most grow up to lives of drugs and achahol please stop and get help
Wow, this is wrong on so many levels.
I don’t know of any men who fantasize about sex with children, it is wrong! They are not mentally, emotionally or physically ready and if you “loved” them at all, you would recognize that.
Now, assuming you’re telling the truth, then I would suggest that you see a counselor and try to get therapy because you will seriously harm a child.