I´m pregnant with my teacher.
Posted by Cara in Sex on Feb 22nd, 2009 | 54 commentsI´m in college and I had sex with one of my teachers for about two months. Yesterday I found out I´m pregnant with him. I still can´t believe it. I´m going to have an abortion and no one will have to find out. Ever. I hate myself for being such a slut.
I wish it had never happened.
I´m so sorry.
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Don’t abort your baby! Thats half of you!!! Who cares if someone finds out! You dont want to hold that secret over you forever. Its not like it was illegal!! It happens all over…but is kept secret often..which is understandable. Aborting your baby wont erase the “mistake” you’re hoping to erase.
Don’t do it
I recall: It has been said that a low-life will use the power and influence of an authoritarian position to get subordinates to engage in sexual acts. The weak and hopelessly inadequate can get it no other way.
The ‘shame’ is on him, not you. Make sure all know who the father is. Have the child. If you don’t want it, offer it to him. If he doesn’t want it, I’ll care for the little one.
I know that you are upset about your decision. I feel that along with your decisions comes great responsibility. Why should a little baby die because you made a bad choice. I have head many stories about abortions. For the mother it only leads to depression and it seemed as though nobody was ever happy with themselves or ever the same again.
Don’t do it I been thru what u are.do open or closed ad
option.its easier to live with.its hard at first but better than never knowing its face. Trust me.call angel above adoptions in hawaii I did and met y
The perfect people I got to choose and I get to see him and be involved in his life.no one knew that’s how well I hid mine.you’ll regret abortion more than anything
hi ive been in the same boat as you i slept with my teacher for better grades and i got pregent i was scerd to start off wit it but then i grew a back bone and told my mum and dad what was going on the phoned the poilce i pressed charges my mum wasnt happy bout me wanting to keep the baby but i did now my little girl is coming up two and is full of life and im happy with someone else i wouldnt change my life for the world
[quote post="2863"]I hate myself for being such a ****.[/quote]
Don’t think like that…..it will lead you towards depression….Try n learn something from your mistake….& move ahead in ur life….trust me it will be beautiful again….
don’t hate yourself.use proper prevention.
nothing bad in having sex!
I know how you feel sweetheart; I had a very similar situation last year, and though I don’t know you, I promise you the pain you are going through right now will get eaiser. There will be moments it hurts, but you are not a **** as you said, you are just sad, as I was. The pain eases. Just hold on…
you should tell him. he needs to know
Please dont have an abortion…its murder. Its not the baby’s fault. Adopt the baby out. There are so many couples desperate to have a baby. You could turn this situation around, and give life and hope for a childless couple. I pray you havent aborted the baby yet…I really hope you are still in the decision mode.
I knew this confession would bring out the right to life freaks. Have the abotion and get on with your life. Abortion is not a good thing, but sometimes it is a necesary evil. Just like the cuts to social programs that most of these right to life idiots always espouse.
Do whats right for your situation. But remember a baby is for life, imgine if you meet someone you’re interested in, they have to consider if they want to be with a single mother. But if your teacher is single and there’s a possiblity for a future to raise the baby together, then keep it. But when everyone else goes on with their lives, including your teacher, you’ll be stuck being a single mother or worse knowing your baby is out there in the world and you can’t be part of his life.
dont let these people try to tell u what to do. u should do what’s right for your, whether you decide to keep it or not. period. go to a neutral clinic and some medical information.
It’s not murder, it’s not a human being that can survive on it’s own. Only potential life. It is however, a living part of yourself. Do what you have to do, but do not do it in fear. I encouraged one in 2004 because I hooked up with this girl a couple times and badda-bing. She was stupid, shallow, lazy and would have been a terrible mother. I was afraid of that, and of myself being a parent. Every day I think about that unborn child 2-3 times a day, and wish I had given it a chance. Even if just for adoption.
get an abortion
i got one and i am fine so you should be okay… good luck!
I believe in your right to choose, but please choose adoption over abortion. So many people want children and can’t have their own. Regret hollows you out, and no one should have to live their life feeling like they’re living without it. Choose wisely, it’s not just your child’s life that hangs in the balance; it’s yours, too.
This is what happens when stupid Christians and their popes think that condoms are stupid
Catholics have Popes, not Christians. I am neither religion myself, but if I would be intolerant enough to degrade somebody else’s religion, I’d at least get my facts right.
I suggest keeping the baby, you can always adop-t out but you can never reverse a abortion. The teacher needs to know, and so does the school as he is breaking the law and his contract. Family planning centres are all around and will help you with or without him with you.
How are your parents taking it, have/can you tell them?
Dont have an abortion! You both decided not to use protection when having sex now deal with it as a responsible adult. And who care what others say or think…people will always talk even if you do something good or bad.
You’re not a ****! Just use protection next time!
Murderer why the hell would u kill ur own baby, selfish women, but u know what if u kill ur own baby son or daughter ur own blood, u wont forgot that ever, when u have ur other kids u will always have on ur mind that there could of been one more and u will always be empty and u will deserve that feeling, its not all about u know darling its about ur kid, **** ur teacher, the love for your baby when u first hold him or her in ur arms, thats a love thats real and u think u may have felt love before but u havent and u will know that feeling when u have YOUR baby in ur arms. so please dont do it, and if u have already I dont like you ur a bad selfish person and u missed out on the greatest love of ur life but if u havent be a real women keep ur baby and love bor or girl with all ur heart. and that teacher I hope he isnt a damn coward and tells u to abort because then he aint a man his a nobody looser. But u gotta prove that ur a real women a strong one that can study and be a mom, its gonna be hard but thats gonna make u stronger and a good person. and ur not a ****. sex is sex if u wanna have sex with a lot of guys then do it, just be safe,always, u aint no ****, us men are ***** we go with one women then the next, so darling keep ur baby and tell him if he dont want anything tell everyone else he bad to u then u be bad to him, or just let it go. good look, i may have sounded mean and im sorry but really i just wanna help.
It’s not even a baby yet, it’s a fetus, I’m not a fan of abortion either but sometimes it’s necessary. She isn’t ready to have a kid yet, and she’s not even married to the guy, a kid deserves a better life than that. >:(
there is such thing as adoption, abortion isnt the only way out. I had abortion myself and it was right for me as I was raped and very very young
I have three female friends one had an abortion two adopted out…………the one that choice abortion is now a successful woman one other is still looking for her daughter that she calls Amy the other knew who adopted her daughter and now that daughter is a spoiled drug addict who nevcr calls or calls for money honey its truly your choice its your body you will have to live with your choice either way good luck and your not a **** he’s an *******
See the problem with all these “do-gooders” is that in the end none of them are going to buy pampers or formula for your baby. None of them will take you to the hospital or doctor when the child is sick.
Lord forbid you give birth to a child that will require long term care as into adulthood. I can’t and won’t tell you what you should do about it.
You have to talk with the daddy and you BOTH decide what to do. Good Luck
First of all, what is there to be ashamed of? Two adults had sex with one another. So what? Yeah, he’s your teacher but you are a grown woman, let’s not pretend that he took advantage of you. You both decided to have sex. It’s a strong human compulsion. You got pregnant. It happens. What you do next is up to you. Don’t pretend you need to make a decision based on something shameful you did. I don’t think you did anything shameful. And I wish you well with whatever you decide. Don’t live your life as a victim. There is no need.
don’t abort the baby! PLEASE! When I was young, (in my teens) I got my gf preg. We were so scared and had an abortion. I regret it EVERYDAY! Sometimes I cry myself to sleep b/c of it. Don’t do it, it will haunt you forever!
It seems to me that you weren’t really in love with your teacher.
You are a ****.
But you shouldn’t abort the baby. It did nothing to be killed.
I’m sorry.. I hope your life turns out to be better.
Please don’t do it. If it’s not too late already.
Your baby is alive inside you…
The circulatory system begins to develop at 15-17 days; the brain and nervous system are established at 20 days; a tiny heart beat begins at just 22 days; brain-wave activity can be recorded at just 35 days; at 45 days the skeleton is complete (in cartilage) and movement begins; at 63 days the baby squints if stroked in the face, and tries to grasp objects placed in its hand.
Thousands of couples can not have children and would LOVE to adopt your baby. During an abortion they go in and rip your cervix apart forcefully (quite painful!) The cervix is what barricades the baby into your body. Because it is forcefully ripped apart and not naturally grown apart (through labor)the cervix rarely can grow back together. Therefore if you are to become pregnant again when you are married and want to have children you will more than likely miscarry because the baby cannot stay inside your uterus without your cervix being together.
You will regret it everyday of your life. You will have so many emotional scars that will never be healed.
Yes, you made a mistake. But don’t make a bigger one to try to “fix” it.
I feel so bad for you and I know it is going to be difficult. I know there are many people who love you and will be able to help you. Please do the right thing.
get your facts straight. i dont know what kind of god awful, back alley abot=rtion clinic your talking about, but they do not ” rip your cervix apart”. there is a natural opening in it (how the hell would you have a period it there wasnt) and they dialte it to about the size of your thumb to stick the suction device in. it heals completely, and unless it was done illegally, abortions are safe and do not affect future fertility. also, they completely knock you out, so aside from a tiny needle stick from the IV, its completely painless.
dont let anyone try to scare you out of abortion. ive had one, and although i regret getting myself in that situation, i dont regret the abortion. none of these people are going to get up every 2 hours to help you feed and change the baby,buy diapers, or watch the baby while you work, and chances are, neither is the baby’s father. do what is best for YOU.
Look, it’s obviously a hard choice to make but abortion is YOUR choice. Why bring ababy into a world with no love?
And you’re NOT a ****, But you are a little stupid :)
Bye!
for u religious wackos..abortion is not murder! i have never had one and do not know if i ever would but it is not murder. murder is an act done out of hate with the intent to cause harm on the victim and/or the people around them. getting an abortion is the only responsible way to go in many cases. i think it would be stupid to keep the baby if u cant support it. none of the people who commented know ur situation so dont listen to them. by now u have probably made ur decision whether to keep the baby or not. i just hope u did whats best for urself and the baby
and..u are not a **** or a murderer
Let he who has never sinned cast the first stone..
also..giving a baby up for adoption is not the best idea. those kids in foster homes are miserable. and a lot of them end up on the wrong path becuz they never had any proper guidance from parents who love them. everyone says “so many people would love to adopt ur baby” but what about all the babies and children who are without parents. instead of having babies to give up for adoption, ppl should be adopting those who are already inn need. now THATS selfish
i meant the guy above me!!
Proclaiming yourself as a “****” implies you were promiscuous. If so, how can you be sure the baby is your teacher’s?
[quote post="2863"]Yesterday I found out I´m pregnant with him[/quote]
wow, ur pregnant with ur teacher? u must have some large uterus! i guess u know it’s a boy eh male then. what a dummy u r. ur too dumb to ever have kids. the slick sleazy teacher probably figured he could bang this hot dummy in his class. sad.
Great now you “eff up” another life. Look, you had sex with the teacher…That was YOUR CHOICE. Then you say your Shocked because your going to have a kid…? What the hell did you learn about Pro-creation and how kids are made? You didn’t think they really came from the storke did you? AND you say your in school huh? Not learning much I see…But the kicker is now you want to kill the kid….Great..Always a fine choice You screw up and want to kill someone else huh? Well, here, do this…Next time give him a B_low job
Ur an *******! First of all, when is the last time you’ve ever been pregnant. And have u ever thought of putting yourself in her shoes? Would u keep the kid jest to raise him/her in a destructive environment? Think about how she might feel if she reads this.
She isn’t killing a kid, because it’s not alive yet, every time you masterbate you kill sperm, does that make YOU a killer? Your a jerk. >:(
go ahead, its your choice to abort, who cares about what other people on here thinks, they dont know how its like being in your shoe. next time use protection
My soon to be ex-wife was the teacher and got pregnant. She had an abortion. In addition to the divorce, her mind and her body may never recover.
Learn the risks involved with an abortion. If you choose to do it, go to a good doctor and to a Phsycologist after. You can’t change the past, but you may just save your own life.
How hard is it to use birth control and/or a condom? Seriously, what the hell? Are you THAT stupid??
I just wanted to comment to those of you who are condemning this girl for not using birth control, when she left no indication whether or not she was.
I got pregnant three times WHILE USING BIRTH CONTROL! These were the commonly-accepted “safest” forms, such as the pill and/or condoms. Fortunately for me–it was with my husband! I have known several couples who have had babies post-vasectomy or tubal ligation! The only real guarantee is abstinence, and if you think otherwise, you are deceiving yourself.
Before you spout off, think. Just because it hasn’t happened to you, doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen.
And “Cristian”–are you really? A Christian, I mean. Seems like this post was deliberately put in here to give Christians a bad name. If you say you are, please don’t ever post anything like this again. You’re not helping.
Cara – You never posted your final decision, but whatever it was, and wherever you are and whatever you are going through, I am just praying for you right now that you came through it stronger, wiser, and that hopefully, your baby is in a good place with people who love it. I’ve been in a place where my life was torn apart–I hope you find your path to healing sooner, rather than later.
wow abortion plz dnt choose dat not only cause its badd but because god would be hurt and he wont like that i really would tell the teacher cause thats the best thing u can do you are not a ****** its just sex and it doesnt matter wehn u have a baby u have to keep it and love it atleast set it up for odobtion plz dont let the baby die i beg you plz
I’ve been in the same place as you and I never really thought about what would happen if I got pregnant by him. I feel awful about that. But I think you’re making the right decision. It’s just really tough to deal with.
I’m not a fan of abortions, but sometimes it’s necessary. And I think it’s your choice.
if you want an abortion, have one. only you can know what’s best for you, and the unborn child. the mother has the right to choose.
Um. Stop beating yourself up. What are you getting worked up about. You are both consenting adults. Don’t get an abortion and be labeled a murderer. Because that is what you will be.
do what is best for you. high and mighty folks will always exist, but it’s your body, therefore, your decision. live your life for you, not to please people who know nothing about you.
Hello Cara. It’s been more than a year since you posted your secret. How are you now? I hope you’re okay :-)
Don’t apologize. Just have the abortion and don’t do it again.
Please don’t let the religious freaks get a hold of you. They would have a field day on this one.
Everyone has the right to make their own choices and no one likes an earful of judgmental BS especially when making such a difficult decision. Many women abort, some will regret it and some will not. The same as many women have kids and some will regret that decision as well. If you don’t believe in abortion, don’t have one, but don’t project your beliefs onto someone else.