Getting off on exposing my girlfriend
Posted by Jackjoe53 in Sex on Feb 8th, 2010 | 11 commentsIve struggled with this for a few years now, posting her naked pictures up on websites just for a rush then taking them down after (she never has a clue, she would kill me). Ive gone through phases where I have been able to resist for months but then always end up going back. Our sex life has really gone downhill after 3 years, and we are still quite young. I love our relationship so much, everything about it except our sex life.
Recently Ive started using Skype, sending pictures of her to strangers and then masturbating with them while we comment on her naked body. I love it while Im doing it but feel intense shame and guilt afterwards. I feel like I cant be myself around her, or my friends. Just this massive huge secret sex addiction I cant seem to overcome.
I need help, I need people who may have done something similar to help me through this. I love her and respect her so much, yet I keep finding myself doing this completely disrespectful and disgusting thing with the photos she trusted me with.
HELP
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you’re sharing a private picture of your girlfriend to other people?!
she’d really kill you if she finds out.
just stop it.
it strips her dignity as a woman. she walks around happy without knowing (or could be) those “people” whom you send those pictures shares it other people too?
doesn’t it make you feel bad? if you really do, stop.
Look, if you’re really sorry, and feeling bad about the situation, you would stop.
You are humiliating her and it is demeaning.
Talk to her.
Get help. Before she finds out and dumps you. Rightly.
You are not sick. You have an obsession with showing your girl to others. I have my girls show their tits in public over the years. The first one like to drive with her big titties out so other drivers can see. She liked that and now I do.
Go out and find women, many, to have sex and accede to your addiction. That will ease your mind.
I’m scared of guys showing the pics of me I’ve sent them to other people. I don’t care if it makes you feel good. think about her. I would hate you if I were her.
haha chatted with someone just like this
I happen to know someone just like you or maybe it is you…we use to chat on yahoo and he would show pics of his gf and even sent me video’s…she has no clue he did this..
in your condition , i don’t think we humans can help you . we can only give advise.
what you must do is pray in the name of Jesus Christ. believe in Him and He will cure you
What you might have is a paraphilia. There are coercive and noncoercive paraphilias. Coercive paraphilias are characterized by their nonconsensual nature. Sadly, treating them might be rather difficult and there are many approaches depending on the paraphilia. Prevention programs seem to work the best.
“I love her and respect her so much, yet I keep finding myself doing this completely disrespectful and disgusting thing with the photos she trusted me with.”
Keep telling yourself that until she finds out and then you can tell her too. !!!!
I also chatted with a man on yahoo who did the samething pics and video’s he didnt even block her face out I mean if he loves her so much how could he do that but, he always made sure his was!!!!!