I find my best friends dad attractive im 17 his 42 but cant help feeling this way everytime we see each other we always flirt and muck around luckyly my bestfriend thinks we just get along like old mates but little does he no i have strong feelings for his dad and would one day like to be with him forever i always fantasise about having sex in my bestfriends bed with his dad i know this sound wierd but i cant help it
that is the most disgusting thing i have ever heard shame on you get someone your own age his proberly not interested
Its eather love or just a phase. Your young and young people r so vonerable that sometimes we dont know rather its a crush or true love, and we often mistake it as love. However if u r truely attracted to this older man dont feel ashamed, its just the way life turns out. Im not saying its not going to risk your friendship with your friend, but its also not your fault
I say go for it. Old men are sexy and they turn me on too.
i have a crush with an older guy like your age. just a little crush. i didn’t do anything stupid like flirting or TRY to be with him…. because, that would be a little embarrassing for my friend or to anyone causing little trouble. it’s okay to have crushes! i have crushes! everyone has crushes! just don’t go over to the limit with these fantasies. crush is a crush. it’s not nice. no big deal. he’s even married to someone whom he loves! what would you do if someone found out you have these fantasies from someone else’s dad??? i say… keep that heart skip from time to time but don’t go waaaay over!
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i think this is an Electra Complex.
It’s probably just and infatuation, it happens to everyone. You’re probably just trying to work out your sexuality, but I wouldn’t act on it, not yet at least.
that is fuking gross, for starters ew and secondly your bestfriends with his kid
haha at Julia’s comment, OLD MEN ARE SEXY
I say go for it there is nothing wrong with that.
I say its beautiful, if you have feelings for this man like you’ve never had for anyone else go for it it may ruin ur friendship but before you make a move talk to your friend, all those other people who leftcomments about how discusting it is I suggest u shut ur mouths because u obviously can’t get none so you have to make fun of others who have found someone, I say go for it if its for love besides I strongly agree with julia older men are sexy and more mature
it is pretty natural for kids, especially teens, to have crushes but mistake it for love. ur frnd’s dad is already married to someone he loves…so don’t move on with this.it is just how all teens feel as they are intrested in knowing about the opposite sex at this age.
i had this HUGE crush on this guy before…we were pretty good friends, until one day i asked him if he liked his best friends sister, coz even she had a crush in him…and since then things things have been pretty rough between us, as we are in the same school and he lives right behind my building…i still have a slight thing for him and regret doing what i did…as that spoilt our relationship.i guess that’s what happens if you let these things get toooo much to your head…so dude forget about him and find someone your own age, who ain’t married!! :)..cheer up.
i once had a secret love with someone 30 years older then me i was 30 and he was 60, age is not the barrier, the barrier is wether you truely love him or not. and if you do i say go for it.
love rayleene
xx
you don’t love him. it’s just a phase.
keep fantasising! it he’s hot, i don’t find it disgusting. but if he’s married, you prob should’nt try to date him.. lol.
I know it hurts to face the reality, but are you sure he is flirting with you?If that guy loves you, go for it. But if not the sooner you forget, the better.
Its just the way you want to be.. thats why you have this feeling. This is un-natural. I dont need to justify my statement.. Cuz even after this has been legalised (only) in west, still it compells one to think.. what the hell he is doing!
Yet another point: We believe in GOD. What about the people who believe in hundreds of gods. Look at India, Burma, Nepal, Singapore, Thailand. What about who dont even have a concept of god. Do they allow this stuff in their society.
Alright,.. alright.. we are free and they are not. Way to go! I rest my case.
Don’t even get me started on religion. I have been brought up in a catholic family and I am gay. I believe and love god. The hypocrites out there are you people. Tell me. How is it that you say it’s SO wrong?! Isn’t that judging?? And isn’t the only and FINAL judge GOD himself?! Not puny little dirt earthlings like me, and especially yourself?! So my father divorced my mom and married someone 17 years younger than him!! So what is wrong with age?! What if they’re destined?? My mother KNEW I was gay at the age of three. That is WAY before puberty. So seriously I was bound to be gay. So “reverser” I guess that’s a great name for you since the fact that you are “reversing” your whole religious views. How ashamed god must be. But I won’t judge because that’s NOT my part In This life :) by the way. I’m 18 and sounds like I know what I’m talking about. Unlike you.
That is great that u love him. But think about it…
Does he love his wife?
if not, would he divorce her to be with a young man less tan half his age?
if not, would your bestfriend still be your bestfriend?
would you be wreking the dads relationship with his family?
If you truly love him, you would consider all of those pionters. Once considered…
OLDER MEN ARE DEFINATELY A TURN ON =]
It’s not disgusting. Feelings are not optional, they are responsive to situations in an involuntary manner. Those ignorant, sexually oppressed fools who condemn these natural reflexes will in time certainly receive unpleasant wake up calls. I say try and step logically, and think from other perspectives, don’t let others cloud your vision.
umm…..are you serious. think about. you are thinking about having sex with your best friends dad! im not gonna say anything else.
wow um okay so your in love with your best friends dad? just think about it for reals.
and plus ; OLD MEN ARE NOT A TURN ON.
fantasies are usually much better when they continue to stay just fantasies! there are a lot of people who could get hurt in all of this.
Am I the only one that sees this for what it is? It’s a crush on a DILF. See if a 17 year old boy had a crush on a MILF, nobody would pay it any attention, but since it’s a gay teen for an older man….well you get the picture.
Max..I think that’s your name. Dude! Im a gay guy..so been there done that..and trust me this will pass and within a year you will be saying “What the hell was I thinking”?
old men rule! i fantasize about them all the time! you are so lucky if you can get with your friends dad! i got me a couple oldies on the side and they are sooo hot!
that is so hot! i hope you go for it! he could be the love of your life! make up a plan and try seducing him!