Fallout from the Boss and his Ego
Posted by Anonymous in Sex on Aug 7th, 2009 | 11 commentsMy boss is gorgeous,semi-famous, articulate and charismatic, and he knows it. We work closely together in a highly specialized field, and after a year he started to confide in me about his two decades of cheating on his wife and his twisted sexual preferences including groups, fun with body fluids, etc. I am in agony over this because I am happily married, and I know his wife, she is beautiful, fun and educated! Lately he has told me he is now in love with someone else, and has had many close calls with “almost being caught by his wife”. He laughs about it! Why would he risk telling me this…I never asked!! I cannot believe I am accessory to his secrets, part of me wants to tell his wife and see his multimillion dollar ass fall, the other part of me feels pity for the poor fool who gave me the best job I’ve had in years (we have a mutual attraction but have never had a sexual relationship)and work brilliantly together. A new job search could take me months, any suggestions for the interim on shutting him down without angering him to the point of firing me? I have a wonderful family to support! His talk is making me physically sick!!
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dont say anything.. she will eventually find out. yeah its been twenty years but think of your family first…
Why do you feel the need to relate this to his wife? I think this info puts you in a position of power. You have something over his head so he just can’t fire you. Although I would record these confessions.
Also my thinking is maybe he wants to do you but won’t unless you give him the green light. In any event it really doesn’t matter. Eventually he will get caught and you will find yourself unemployed and the guilt by association thing will kick in.
Enjoy the ride while it last and always remember to protect yourself.
Peace
I think you should tell his wife because that’s just not right, he lies to her everyday and acts like their marriage is perfect.. she thinks nothings wrong, she deserves to be told and he’s shallow if he fires you.
Don’t tell her it’s really none of your buissness. You need to remember you go to work to make money. You don’t have to like the people you work with or for. Just ignore what he says as much as possible and go on being professional. When you leave work let it all go.
Send your boss an email. Inform him in so many words that you don’t want to hear about his extra-marital affairs and how it makes you uncomfortable. Tell him that it makes it difficult for you to continue to respect him and hold him in high regard when he tells you such things of his personal life.
Wait for his response via email only! If he apologizes and says he will no longer continue those actions, drop it. If he gets out of line…print his response and bring it to your HRs attention…if he fires you…you already have a case. ;-)
I THINK YOU SHOULD JUST KEEP A LIL DIRTY SECERT FOR HIM,JUST THE FACT THAT GIRLS COULD BE DUMB…BY THE FACT THAT YOU’LL LET HER KNOW AND SHE’LL END UP STAYING WITH HIM AND AT THE END YOU’LL BE THE BAD PERSON,SHE WOULD PROBABLY THINK YOU WANTED HIM..OR BEING A DOGG THAT HE IS HE WOULD DENAY IT AND YOU WOULD BE JOB LESS FOR PUTTING YOUR NOSE WHERE IT DID’NT BELONG…….
Cut him a deal, he never mentions it again in exchange for sex on his table – ONCE. If he mentions it again, pull out the recording of his confession and threaten him. Never admit sleeping with him to anyone ever.
Don’t tell your partner, just try to understand your boss.
Never, ever, ever get invovled with these things…..absolutely do not tell his wife, even if she asks you, stay out of other peoples affairs, cause you never know what they will do. Things could get crazy and laws could be broken wants the cat is out the bag. Continue your job and life while subtly letting him know that your not interested in his double life by giving him a smile and never responding or putting your two-cents in about his stories. As for physically getting sick over his life…mind over matter, yeah he’s a sicko, so what—there are children starving over the world–get over it!!
Lifes to short to worry about such trivial things, use your energy on better things, MUAH
What a pig this guy is.
He has no love or respect for women.
He truly believes he is untouchable.
Look how he is dishonoring his wife,, and almost laughing about it.
Look how he enjoys unloading his deciet on you with the unspoken expectation you will keep quiet.
He’s behaves like you are not worthy of respect or being treated with dignity.
What a pig.
I’d set him up to fall with his wife and enjoy the splat.
RULE (1) – Keep YOUR MOUTH SHUT. (2) – If you think a new job search could take months now, wait until you watch him fall and your out of a job. Because you don’t like what he does – you don’t go after the man’s job because you like his wife!. So now you have 3 choices. (A) – Tell him you’d rather not hear anymore for the reason you mentioned and that’s it. or (B) Listen and just shut up. (C) get another Job
this guy is a typical shallow, phony, money hungry, power hungry, sex crazed, fraud. so sick of the phony games that ‘respectable’ ppl like this guy play. he has the golddigger wife bullshitted and she is probably puttin up her own phony front while she screws elsewhere as well. ppl need to cut out all the phony bs and just be themselves. if ur gonna screw around ppl, dont get married and be a corrupt soul-less fraud like the guy u describe.