Ok where to start im a girl im 19 and my lover happens to be my cousin. i first fell inlove with her 2 years ago when we spent all our christmas holidays together. it was so obvious that we were both into each other but none of us was willing to make the first move until about 5 months ago when she came to stay at my flat whilst she was looking for a flat to rent she seems so natural around the house she would often walk around naked and culdnt help but stare about 1 week after she moved in we were having a few drinks by ourselfs and she then confessed her love to me i replyed sayin i loved her to we then spent our first of many nights together as a couple we have decided not to tell family about this as it would break there hearts as we are a close knit family we planb to mave interstate so we can live our life as a couple.
if you love eachother, i don’t really see anything wrong with it.
good luck with your relationship :)
Ewwww, that’s discusting, I have 2 cousins they’re names are rachael and dianne and they have the same problem except they’re more upfront about it all and hold hands in public and make out at family celebrations, its discusting and I think they need serious help and so do these 2 ppl
it’s not disgusting. love is love man. respect it.
im with julia love is love i congratulate you for keeping up with the relationship even thu you got critisied good luck in the future
Why did your cousin walk around the house naked?
- That’s weird! Especially since you guys weren’t going out AND you are cousins.
- Tell your family about it, they’re going to find out sooner or later, it’s going to be hard but how are you going to deal with all that guilt of a huge secret from the family that raised BOTH of you guys?
- First cousins makes a weird relationship + even SECOND cousins is better.
- That’s not love, it’s a problem(or difference) in the way people think, like lesbians, gays, disabled, it’s all in their way of thinking.
Humans are attracted to pharamones, chemicals, physcological dispositions, types of communication, and physical qualities. Whoever meets those needs, who you feel bonded to, is a good match for you.
No shame man, you’re just following your interests.
I agree. Besides, first cousins used to be married off all the time. Consult the history books (not to mention bible, for those judgmental religious folk).
Do your thing. The only reason first cousins aren’t allowed to marry now-a-days is because of potential birth defects in children. But since you are both girls you won’t be having a problem with that.
Lol @ you being a tight knit family, as you date your cousin.
If you love her and she loves you, then I guess it’s fine, besides marriage between cousins happened all the times.
pls this is disgusting
At first I seemed bothered by it, but as long as you aren’t mixing your genes by having children, not much harm can be done. I hope it doesn’t hurt your family, but honestly it sounds like the best cousin’s-in-love situation possible if that makes any sense. Good luck, I think you’ll be fine.
normal thing but brother and sister now thats sick !
Cousin and cousin OR brother and sister…either way its wrong!! Im telling u!! Im not judging in any way!! Two girls being attracted to eachother..nothing’s is wrong especially if it is “love.” Also two men…now thats also wrong!!! JUST MY OPINION
I am very much in love with my cousin and have been since I was a teenager. We have had the most wonderful, passionate sex I’ve ever experienced because the love we share on so many levels. He is my best friend and to be able to share the relationship we have is beyond words. Love your cousin.
it’s a little funny, but wildly romantic.
I wouldn’t over analyze this if I were you, or anyone else. Life is one huge experiment, so if you’re not allowed to love who you love, then what’s the point? Cousins or not, few people are put in situations where they can openly and honestly express their love for another, so it seems like you guys are fortunate. Just go with it.
Actually, when first cousins have a child together, there is only a very tiny increase in the chance of birth defects. The odds of having a child with genetic diseases are roughly comparable to those who aren’t cousins. The danger of having deformed children has been vastly exaggerated.
There have even been U.S. Presidents who married their cousins. (Eleanor Roosevelt’s maiden name was Eleanor Roosevelt. Pretty handy, huh?)
R u kidding?!!! This is sick, sick sick! God expected the people to multiply the land. How can we with man-man or woman-woman relationships? And with your cousin? No shit ur attracted to her…..u share a lot of the same DNA! ur probably seeing yourself n her! You both know it’s wrong or u wouldn’t have been hiding it from the first place! Stop trying to follow the majority….just because 1000 people may say it’s OK and Jesus alone saids it’s wrong…..THEN IT’S WRONG! That’s Bible!!!
if you like her then nothing is wrong with it
my great uncle married his cousin and my family don’t think there’s anything wrong about it