Confused
Posted by Anonymous in Sex on Jan 19th, 2010 | 12 commentsAfter reading all these confessions on this site, I finally have the courage to confess to my own little secret.
I’m a married lady, and have been married to a wonderful man for the past 2 years. We have a semi good sexlife. It is just my sex drive is much higher than his, but I’m totally cool with it.
It is just that I have this urge to have sex with another man, just some random guy. I love sex, and would just like to know how it would be with another man, because i have been with my husband for so long. I really really really would like to screw some guy and the thought of it is driving me nuts! but on the other hand I am too scared of being caught out. i thought about joining a chat line, but will all What can i do about it?
Then I also have sort of a crush on one of my friends, I can never tell him, because he and my husband gets along very well. I just sometimes wonder where my life would have been if I did not marry my husband. Is it wrong to think about it that way?
I’m so sexually frustrated that i wanna **** someone right now!
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Before you do anything with another man, try getting your husband to spice it up. Help him out by wearing lingerie or role playing with him. It may sound easy to just screw someone just once, but if you develop more feelings for that person then you will have trouble. I know the sex you want to have may not have anything to do with the love you have for our husband, but imagine what you will want to do after 5 or 10 years of marriage. If you are having these thoughts so early in your marriage you have a bigger problem then you think.
You will probably be dissapointed. On the other hand maybe planting the seeds of becoming a hotwife and cuckolding your husband appeals to you also.
You should get a toy
Be open and discuss it with your husband. You never know, he may be open to it. I wish my wife had been open with me.
I agree with buzzard- I am in a relationship with a woman, and I can’t wait til the next threesome.
I also agree with Buzzard and R. I do not like to participate in a 3some but love to watch my wife in action with a stranger or know she is with one with my consentment
i truly understand how you feel. but if you realy want to do it. be ready for the consequences. if you need advice or **** u can count on me
I completely understand! Some days I would love to find a perfect stranger and just have sex with him, I don’t even need to know his name…
wow…i am surfing the internet trying to see people’s thoughts on this…
i have been with one woman my whole life…my wife…and recently I cannot stop looking at other women wondering….
crazy
Soundslike you have too much time on your hands.
A hobby would be better than a divorce or some sexually transmitted disease.
Try stamp collecting or ceramics.
If I were in your situation I’d probably feel the same way.
Luckily I’ve slept with a lot of guys to know that good sex is sex with someone you are comfortable and in love with.
If I didn’t stumble upon this kind of sex I’d still be seeking out random guys to **** instead of seeking a person to love and be committed to.
I’ve noticed alot of women on here saying that their husband/boyfriends have a lower sex drive than them. I hate to be the one to tell you this but you may be very mistaken, what you perceive as a lower sex drive in your mate is most likely a lack of interest in you in particular, not in sex. But all is not lost, speak to him and ask him what he would like to try, experiment and explore some fantasies that he may have. I know from experience because I don’t really like sex with my gf, she is great but just not good in bed and I think problems that annoy me in our relationship affect my desire to be with her. But I dream of ******* every other woman I see obsessively. It’s really just her but I can’t tell her.