Bisexual? What do I do?
Posted by Anonymous11 in Sex on Jun 26th, 2010 | 5 commentsHello, I’m a 34 yr old happily married man with two young children. Ive been married for 7 years and together with her even longer. Now I’ve considered myself somewhat bisexual during this whole time, as a matter of fact I started having thoughts when i was about 15. The thoughts come and go, but when they come, i cant stop thinking about it. I try to get a release from porn and that works, but I find myself wanting to have a guy friend w/benefits type thing. I have had two experiences with men. When I was 23 I met a guy online and after talking for some time we met and I went to a hotel with him. I let him have his way with me and we had intense sex.I loved the way he touched my body. It was such a relief, I felt like I just put the weight of the world down for the first time. There was another time with another guy and that is all the experience I’ve had with the same sex.(All prior to my marriage) All thoughts with the same sex are sexual in nature and I dont have any thoughts of living ot doing b/f or g/f typ stuff..lol Its just the bodies and thought of sex that I’m attracted to. I know I love women just as much as the next guy, but I cant seem to stop wondering or thinking about being with another guy.
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Just tell her man. Life is too short to drive yourself crazy over these little things. She should know, but you must also take into account her feelings. Try and work out a situation from there.
Doing nothing is the easy way out.
yes I agree you need to be honest with yourself and her.. Yes men will feel like they want to have a sexual only relationship with another man. She can decide if she still wants to be with you or not. Understand that depending on the state you live in that you will be paying 28-35% of your gross income for child support.
i had the same problem only i ended up being lesbian not bi. u have to risk it i did and i dont regret it a bit
i told my wife after 17 years I had desires and some experience with guys, she actually confessed that she got turned on by 2 guys and was curious if maybe we could try a 3 some sometime, im keeping my fingers crossed
She knows now and has excepted it. She cracks Jokes every once in a while but I think she is cool with it. Thanks for the advice