becoming a slut
Posted by cathy in Sex on Feb 7th, 2010 | 7 commentsI have been married to a wonderful man for many years and our sex life has been good but recently I have started to fantasise about other men…I have started looking at them and wondering what they would be like.
My mind wanders what affect I would have on them and I have started to dress to make them look.
Last week we had builders in and I wandered about with a low cut T shirt and no bra..and pyjama bottoms..I loved the affect I had…which became obvious after a while…I am afriad though that I might go further and risk my marriage but the thoughts are always on my mind…especially if I see young fit men
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its normal, you’ve been with the same guy for a long time, you can’t help it but think of others.. but if you ever think your about to do something wrong, stop you.. because remember there’s a man at home who loves you and you shouldn’t risk anything with a wonderful man for some fun, cause in the end its not the fun thats going to make you happy, its being with someone you love and loves you for the rest of your life.
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I think every woman fantasizes. And hell you can make yourself look sexeh so other men look, as long as they dont get to touch. Shuld give your man some selfasteem by having something others want.. right? Unless he objects to it ofc :P.
listen I have have had sex with 2 married woman and its great for both me and them I have even ****** one while she talked to her husband while he was on his way home! it was so ******* hot and a rush you should give it a try :)
You are suffering from Lack Of Attention.
You are a good looking woman, I presume. Your husband is not giving you as much as you need. After ‘many years’ of marriage we grow accustomed to each other and life is the same thing everyday, every week. You do not mention children. If yes, get a baby sitter. Go out with husband to a bar. Wear a blouse buttons: braless and a nice shorty skirt. Have a drink for ‘courage’.
Make him pay attention to you. Talk sexy, touch him- not his penis- in public. Make sure others see you making moves on him. Open your blouse and show him your bosoms, as much as is allowed or comfortable. Kiss him deeply and make him aware of how much you want, need and desire him, in every way.
Maybe he likes when others see your bosoms. If the bar allows, do a short strip-tease but do not take off clothes…just open up.If the bar doe not permit this, do it anyway with your back to the patrons: QUIETLY and Discreetly.
Later, give him your best oral love before you get home then have sex like a starving woman until he can’t do it anymore.
ummm how is this helping her out? thats basically treating the guy to a great night you retard.
Flirting is fun but be careful! You also don’t want to get a reputation.
This is easy for me….
How would you feel if your partner was doing this? Thats how I would judge it.
Simple answer spice up your love life with your partner, play out the fantasy… but maybe not the builder just after hes been round! Go away for the night, pretend its your first date/night together etc I’m sure you can think of your own or ask hubby for his fantasy… but be careful the reality of things may be different. It would take a certain person to allow other people to be involved.
You just seem a bit bored to me. Have fun in your relationship! Just talking about fantasies or if your strong enough past exploits. But i’m male so check out some magazines or books etc for ideas. It can’t hurt to get your man wild every now and then find something that does it for you too or take turns!
do what your hearts ……..there will be 100 opinion …but you are the best to know what you want …i am also have a extra marital with a guy younger than me 7 years i am 32 . i love my life